How do i let me convince my mom to let me go to the movies with my boyfriend (with out them). She only wont let me because when she first started going places with her boyfriend she got pregnet, im not her im not gonna get pregnet!!! What should i say to her to let me????
were 13
2007-03-05 10:58:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have a serious conversation with her.
Assure her that she can trust you.
Let her know that you aren't going to follow down that path, and you have you whole future ahead of you.................
Here's an idea and it is very respectful to......
Ask you mom if he can come over for dinner one night.
Parents like to know who there kid is dating/has interest in...
I am 16 I have been there trust me......
Try that.
Wish you the best of luck...
2007-03-05 11:04:12 · answer #1 · answered by circusgirl322 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, you should start by explaining to her that you are responsible enough to be going places with your boyfriend. However, words can only go so far, I suggest you should show her how responsible you are by doing some extra chores around the house, bring up a grade or two on your report card, get a job, or volunteer at some kind of shelter are just a few examples. Talk to her about how it's pretty much impossible to do anything at the movies, anyways. I find it even uncomfortable sometimes to even make out because there are so many people around.
Also, find a nice way to tell/show her that just because she made mistakes when she was going places with her boyfriend doesn't mean that you will too. Chances are, she's just trying to protect you from making a big mistake, which getting pregnant at 13, would be VERY hard to deal with. Tell her that you're not ready to have a baby yet and that you are waiting until you're a little older to have sex.
I hope I helped. =)
2007-03-05 11:08:30 · answer #2 · answered by Themi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not old enough to drive yourself then Mom and dad should still be going with you. Their only looking out for your best interests. Trust me, the fact that their willing to let you go in the first place says they trust you. So enjoy the freedom they give and don't take advantage of it or it could be gone as quick as you got it.
It easy to keep a parents trust but it's harder than H#LL to earn it ,back, so hang in there
Hope this helps
2007-03-05 11:07:47 · answer #3 · answered by walker9842 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find ways to show your mother how responsible you are. Do things around the house without being told to, if you say you're going to do something do it, and don't complain about not being allowed on a date without them.
My parents were the same way; I didn't go out alone with a guy until I was 17. Looking back I understand why my parents enforced that rule, and maybe someday you will too. :)
2007-03-05 11:03:06 · answer #4 · answered by DPC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your mom to know the boy. Yes, I know this sounds stupid, who lets their mom embarass them. Give the dude stuff to say, hints, let your mom know him. She'll eventually let you guys go out. Make sure your mom doesn't either-
1-Fry him. Scare him. Threaten him. Etc.
2-'Bond'. This is horrible, especially if it is 'the son she never had'. She'll bring him over regularly, even after you break up.
Or, DOUBLE DATE! This is a great suggestion, but horrible if you want some alone time.
Yeah, you know that person your parents think is perfect? (Everyone has one) Get them to come.
Be safe. Don't eat popcorn of the seats! =)
2007-03-05 11:08:22 · answer #5 · answered by Blu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom is afraid which you will get raped for the reason which you will placed on a bikini? i'm sorry yet it rather is basically too a good distance! I placed on bikinis each and all the time. I even have been donning bikinis for the reason that i replaced into like, seven! and that i've got not even been touched!
2016-09-30 06:10:32 · answer #6 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would wait until your older if i had a thirteen year old daughter i would be a little skeptical about letting my daughter go to a movie without me. but you could always go with a friend and her boyfriend it could be like a double date. but you can't blame her for being protective she just doesn't want what happened to her to happen you.
2007-03-05 11:04:11 · answer #7 · answered by Juliaysha247 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe ask ur mom if u can sit away from her or go wit a group of friends. she cares for u and if u were my daughter id be the same.. ur 13 and young. good luck.
2007-03-05 11:05:43 · answer #8 · answered by n01limits87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u hav like a really kewl aunt or uncle or sumpin then ask if he/she can go wit u 2.
2007-03-05 11:01:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋