hello there, I have a girlfriend about two weeks ago, I like her veeery much, I always spend time with her at lunch and the next hour, give her gifts, and hugs often, and try to let her know that she's my angel.
But these days she hasn't been paying too much attention to me (us),and I think its because I may be spending too much time with her or because I'm being too good, and I don't wanna think that but thats what i think... WHAT SHOULD I DO TO FIX THIS???
2007-03-05 10:54:29 · 16 answers · asked by mr. luis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you should look into her personality a bit or her past relationships. If you look into her personality, you might see that her behavior is her and its not because of you, or that if you did do something, you might be able to fix whatever it is by understanding more on how she works. And if you look into her past relationships, then you could find out if her behavior is a normal thing or if it is good or bad. You know? Those would be the "easier-on-her-harder-for-you" answers, but the easiest way to deal would be to politely ask her if there is anything the matter. It might be a little hard to get up and ask her, I know, but it's the most direct way to really know what's going on.
I hope that helped, and good luck with your girlfriend!
2007-03-05 11:07:56 · answer #1 · answered by Hunter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just ask her whats going on. I think these are some possibilites. If you really feel you cant ask her whats going on, just back off a little bit, if she cares about you she'll come back and appreciate you more.
1. she may be feeling smuthered, and needs her own space.
2. she is using you, so you are not a priority in her life.
3. Shel likes you but isn't sure about you too and wants to take things slow and feels like you are pressuring her.
2007-03-05 14:55:54 · answer #2 · answered by Pinklady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man, u are being used.!!! first,don't give a gift before u know your relationship is going to be serious. second, yes you spend too much time with her and she may think that you don't have any other hobbies)
what can u do to fix this? u have to become a hero or just... there are many other beautiful girls. but seriously, i recommend u to find another one and make a good, right start.
the victim of my ex-girlfriend, i really hope it will help u
2007-03-05 11:11:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to know, take her out for coffee and ask her. I know this is gonna be hard but it will be worth it. Say "Listen sweetie I've been concerned about you lately. I feel you've been distant is something bothering you?" Most likely she's feeling a bit overwhelmed with life in general and it may have nothing to do with you. Good Luck with your angel!
2007-03-05 11:01:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think its the matter of spending to much time....
I really don't know what it could be...
I would def. have a chat with her.
Get re-ahured on whats up between the two of you....
Take it from a girl, I LOVE when my boyfriend spends time with me. It makes me feel so good. When he is with me all the time.
Good luck sorry I couldnt give you a better answer
I wish you the best. :)
2007-03-05 10:59:49 · answer #5 · answered by circusgirl322 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you sound like you are under 18 (still a child) just don't take things so seriously, you're still a young boy, just give attention to other girls, I'm sure she'll come around, if she doesn't just go to another girl.
2007-03-05 11:01:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
communicatoin is the key.just talk to her ask her wuts goin on.u mite wann try layin off da gifts cuz after a while gets kinda boring especially round holidays liek valintines day.she b liek i love instead of da gift nd let her kno shes ur angel by verbal expressions
2007-03-05 10:59:29 · answer #7 · answered by ashley w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play hard to get. Just try to do other things instead of being with her. Then she'll wanna spend time with u.
2007-03-05 10:58:42 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
back of, give her some space and stop trying so hard. but don't ignore her talk to her and send her cute notes.no gifts in less its a holiday.
2007-03-05 11:01:11 · answer #9 · answered by Vanessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her and i think it would be smart to die it down a bit b/c we like attention but not alot of it
2007-03-05 10:58:53 · answer #10 · answered by tootsiebaby214 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋