he lives in murrieta and i live in san diego. its like 35 mins away! but i havent seen him since last summer!but he just started talking to me. we talked to eachother for like a week straight!then last friday he asked me out. we are pretty much falling in love. but he get his lisence on march 20th. then his stupid parents wont trust him for like a month after that to come out here to see me.i really want to see him! what am i supposed to do?
2007-03-05 10:47:47 · 12 answers · asked by pizza_girly223 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first of all 35 minuets away is not considered long distance. I made it work with my boyfriend who lives in a different state... a 4 and a half hour drive. We've been together for over 2 years. He just went to college this year and it's a little closer then before and it's a lot easier to see him with his parents a little less involved in his agenda. But if you are really in love it will work. Never blame a break up on long distance. If you love him and he loves you then it will take more then just a little distance to break you up.
2007-03-05 11:04:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT LET HIM GO.
Take it from expieriance.
People who say LD relationships dont work are full of it.
I am walking proof that it does.
My boyfriend and I started dating at when I was 13 and he was 14
We had our ups and downs and 2 break ups (i split with him)
He is 18 and I am 17 now.
We have known each other our whole lives, and love each other more than anything in the whole world.
If he is going to make the effort to come see you go for it....
I was just in murrieta lol........
Go for it girl...
If you can trust him, and you know you love each other....
I wish you all the best and happiness in the world
Good luck
2007-03-05 10:54:05 · answer #2 · answered by circusgirl322 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not even long distance. Try getting rides or public transportation. And be careful when you do this, only people you trust.
Best thing to do is wait it out. If you really like eachother enough, youd both wait until you find a solution.
2007-03-05 10:53:24 · answer #3 · answered by Gabriel G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
35 minutes is not long distance! (3000 miles is!) just get to know each other more and talk on the phone until he gets his license. use public transportation if u can. get friends to transport you guys if you can. other than that, you can't do much each else.
2007-03-05 10:52:19 · answer #4 · answered by deepti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another guy close to home you can keep tabs on. Your long distance boyfriend is making excuses why he can't see you. He most likely has a few girlfriends in his area. I did!
2007-03-05 11:00:29 · answer #5 · answered by pappyneil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really dont liek long distance relationships for this exact reason.if yall really in love then yall both would find a way to talk to each toher.u mite wanna meet him halwayz or meet him at a resturant or sumthing.
2007-03-05 10:52:28 · answer #6 · answered by ashley w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not that far away, just drive there, or his parents drive him to you, or meet someway inbetween like the mall or a coffee shop or someplace.
2007-03-05 10:55:24 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait a little... 35 mins is nothing
2007-03-05 10:52:00 · answer #8 · answered by Pedro Sanchez 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
35min is not lng-distance really,so it will be OK if it supposed to be and u will be able to adjust your schedules and your parents
2007-03-05 10:52:39 · answer #9 · answered by Mystery_gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haaaaa...it takes me 30 minutes to get to work...that not long distance girl...wake up...hellooo.
2007-03-05 10:51:31 · answer #10 · answered by Bobbie4u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋