2007-03-05 10:36:16 · 16 answers · asked by coonlake21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree that you can't make someone do something. Don't know you're age or situation, but why not just take the initiative and move it up in steps.
You talk a little now, so at the end of your next conversation, just say, "I really enjoy talking to you. Would you like to get some coffee? (or a drink or a soda)
If there's an interest on their part, they'll accept and go, or, if its an inconvenient time, they might suggest another time. If he says he can't go, just ask, "When would be convenient for you?"
That puts him on the spot to answer. If he makes some lame excuse like, I don't know, I'll have to call you (or check my calendar), then figure the interest isn't mutual and he might not call. If that's the case, leave the friendship where it is - just talking a little, and find someone else.
2007-03-05 10:44:39 · answer #1 · answered by T 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the real question is: Why NOT ask him yourself? If you're not comfortable with him on a 'friend' level enough to have an honest and open interlude into a relationship, do you really think an actual DATE with even deeper emotional attachments is wise?
Perhaps you should get more comfortable with your crush on a personal level until you reach the point where bringing up an offer for more formal dating on your own isn't a problem. Heck, chances are by befriending and getting to no this fellow casually, it might encourage HIM to ask you out!
2007-03-05 18:40:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to get serious with this guy stand up and talk to him most guys think the girl making the first move is sexy hot. Dont play the high school games just ask him you never know if he is mr. right.
2007-03-05 18:39:19 · answer #3 · answered by shonda6777 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Considering this question is coming from a guy, I say why don't you find out if this guy you like is gay or not. If he is, lucky you! You should drop hints. If he's still not getting it, then just ask him out yourself. It won't kill you.
2007-03-05 18:39:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way is to ask a friend to ask him if he likes u.Plus to get her to get him to ask u out...Thats the only way I know.
2007-03-05 18:47:54 · answer #5 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
instead of talking to him alittle start talking to him alot more couples who start out as friends last longer and if you dont have the guts to ask him have a friend to ask him what he thinks aobut you and ask you out that way
2007-03-05 18:41:08 · answer #6 · answered by applejack80@sbcglobal.net 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most likely he has no interest in you. You are either a babbling air head or you are religious and want to save yourself for marriage. Make yourself more marketable to him. How? Walk up to him and ask for sex.
2007-03-05 18:43:40 · answer #7 · answered by thigpen82 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u would have 2 go 2 1 of his friends to ask u out...if your friends with them and if they agree with u
2007-03-05 18:39:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be yourself. Try not to get all jittery. Well, you could do something mysterious. Write a secret love letters or something to track you down. Usually guys fall for that!!!!!!!!! :)
2007-03-05 18:39:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to him a lot more then what you do and try to get on his good side look hot everyday and your day will come soon does he like you?
2007-03-05 18:45:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋