i think i am fat my boyfriend gets soo mad at me when i say that about myself. and i dont like how my chest looks.
while we are having seexxi leave my shrit on all the time.
he always beggs me to take it off he thinks its more romantic. but idk.. he said next time if i dont he wont talk to me.
i wanna but like idk..
helpp =[
2007-03-05 10:33:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just do it... do it the first time in the dark... you'll have to do it eventually... people in relationships see each other naked all the time.
2007-03-05 10:41:06 · answer #1 · answered by Pedro Sanchez 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your shirt off please. I mean you are with a guy that loves you and doesn't seem to care how big you think you are or none of that stuff. You could drive him off by not taking your shirt off because he may feel that if you can't take it off that you are not comfortable around him and that could make him feel that there is no connection. Just allow yourself to be loved by someone that seems to love you. Don't fight it let it happen and go from there. Good luck
2007-03-05 18:43:35 · answer #2 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the first guy. and don't be ashamed because he likes you enough to have sex with you so I bet he likes your chest that much too. Just do it I doubt you'll regret it.
2007-03-05 18:38:46 · answer #3 · answered by Suya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg! same here! lol i hate my boobs! i used to leave my top on all the time! but i have been with my boyfriend 2 years, and now i know he isnt botherd what i look like! he loves me for me!! not for my boobs lol, so i take everything off! just tell him "IF YA DNT LIKE IT! LUMP IT LOL" he sounds like he is being very childish about it! so tell him he is1 and tell him if he carrys on like that then you will neva take your top off! and anyway, you dnt have to take it off straight away, start by taking your shirt off andleaving your bra on, and whenever you feel like it, just take it all off, hope this helps huni , x and GOOD LUCK :)
2007-03-06 16:04:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit being so hard on yourself and give yourself a break! the guy obviously cares or else he would not still be there! i doubt your too big! go ahead, honey! take it off and feel the freedom!
2007-03-05 18:37:53 · answer #5 · answered by Luvbuz01 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u dont feel confortable, then it doesnt matter if ur guy wont talk to u ne more. he needs to know whats right and wrong!
2007-03-05 18:37:45 · answer #6 · answered by book worm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him enough to have sex with him why aren't you comfortable enough to take your shirt off?
2007-03-05 18:36:52 · answer #7 · answered by neonsturm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont be nervous if you think he wont care afterall he is your bf and if he cares for you he would let you keep it on and stay in your comfort zone.
2007-03-05 18:40:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he loves you no-matter how you look....focus on that and that he will love you no-matter what...=) he just wants to be more romantic...either that or he wants to see your chest/boobs...lol sorry but hes just a guy...he cant help it...
2007-03-05 18:38:26 · answer #9 · answered by tinkerbell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 14. You should not be having sex!!!
2007-03-06 15:50:13 · answer #10 · answered by honeyluv_2010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋