My bf keeps going out and coming back telling me girls are all over him and then he shows me who they are and some girl even put her hand in his pants!!! Now some girls are calling his friends asking for his number. I'm pregnant so I don't wanna fight. What am I supposed to do?
2007-03-05 10:32:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well missy that doesnt look to good to me....
If he loved you he wouldnt be doing that, he would be home with you and the baby.
He needs to set these girls straight,
If he really cared he would ..
Tell him that. Talk to him about it,
If it persists I know its hard but you deserve better,
For you and your child....
Good luck sweety.
2007-03-05 10:36:34 · answer #1 · answered by circusgirl322 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Waaahooo, that is something you just find yourself a playa. Keep your calm until the baby comes out then you will see what decision you must take. At the same time try to talk with him and let you know that you are not going to cope with that at all, and that you don't want the father of your baby to be like this. This way he will know what is your feeling about it and he will also know that you are not happy at all. ( May be you are to cool with him and you let him do whatever he wants, to the point that he thinks it is okay with you, how can you listen to your boyfriend talk like this to you, when he first started you should have let him know from the very beginning that you don't like it). He even let you see the picture of girls putting their hands inside his pants. that is disrespecfull. good luck and remember, he is not your friend and you are not his friend. You are boyfriend and girlfriend not to mention that very soon you will be parents. You need to respect each other first.
2007-03-05 18:45:18 · answer #2 · answered by Missy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, I would be fighting if i were you. but u r right it may not be the best solution. I cannot tell you what you should or should not do. i can only say this: I believe this is completely disrespectful, and more so that you are pregnant with his child (I suppose). If I was in the same situation, I would definitely open my mouth. If things did not improve, I would do something more drastic, like moving out of there. In a few words: I would not tolerate it. you are pregnant and you need his full attention. period.
2007-03-05 18:48:18 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHAT?!?!? You are pregnant and he's letting other women put hands down his pants?!?! Dump the zero and go find a hero....I would never tolerate that. Not only is that unhealthy for the baby, but also you and the relationship.....it's only going to get worse. Surround yourself with good friends and support and get out of there!
2007-03-05 18:38:13 · answer #4 · answered by M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe you guys are not planning for married yet. You have to answer/responsible for your own doing now since you are pregnant. Does he knows about the pregnancy? From the way your story, I think he is not in serious relationship with you. You have to ask your parent regards to this and no point getting any answers from the people here cos they don't understand about the situation you are in now.
2007-03-05 18:43:15 · answer #5 · answered by lawrence 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, this is pretty complicated. You gotta let him know this is bothering you. Dont just sit around letting him do this. Although he didnt do anything with any of the girls, you still gotta let him know. Let him know he has to take care of you before going out with his friends. If this continues, temptations gonna give in.
2007-03-05 18:36:38 · answer #6 · answered by Gabriel G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship will not last, I'm sorry to say. He is blaming the "other women" for his roving eye. Don't stand for it. Hold your head up high, you don't need him sweetie, and you shouldn't want him. What kind of role model is he going to be for the child that you are carrying if he cannot respect its mother?
2007-03-05 18:39:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him! He's just being a man-whore seriously if he's letting other girls do stuff like that and tellin u that all these girls want him. he's just tryin to make u jealous or sumthing.
2007-03-05 18:39:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away from him as fast as you can. Go to your parent's house and relax, since fighting is not good for your pregnancy.
2007-03-05 18:36:56 · answer #9 · answered by powerdestini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is so arrogant, from the sound of it. he sounds like he a Casanova.....honey don't get yourself stress out over a complete fool. focus on your health, and the baby. is it possible you can just avoid him, so he want get you all upset....please whatever you do try to remain calm.
2007-03-05 18:39:52 · answer #10 · answered by birdsdafly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋