I've liked this girl for the longest time, ever since late 2005. We only talked and she never liked me back the way I liked her. After four months of us talking, she got angry with me and since then it's been ten months we haven't talked. I usualy get over girls quickly, but since then she's been on my mind constantly. I really miss her a lot. Sometimes we say hi, but I always had to say hi to her most of the time. I met someone else a coulpe of months ago. I think she likes me and I like her too, and we're going to the movies this weekend but I don't feel the same for her as I do for this girl. It's like she has some kind of hold on me. I keep trying to let her go but I can't help but miss her. I feel empty inside. I was once so sure I was in love with her but people kept telling me I just think I love her so now I'm unsure. But what about what I feel? I am sure that I really do care for her and I want her to be happy and what's best for her.
2007-03-05 10:31:28 · 10 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Somehow, I want to let her know I care about and I just want her friendship back without me asking her to go out, and I want to let her know that no matter what I'll be ther for her if she needs me, if she'll ever need me.
2007-03-05 10:39:12 · update #1
I think you should tell her how you feel! It would mean alot to her, and hopfully fix the problems you have been having. But if she still doesnt talk to you or whatever, just try to move on, she may not be worth it.(Oh and If you really mean the things you say about her on here, I really think you do love her, dont listen to those other people haha)
2007-03-05 10:36:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you can talk yourself into anything. I can talk myself into loving president Bush.
You're making a foolish mistake - you are a man and you are taking council from your emotions. I'm not saying you aren't supposed to feel emotions. You can't help that. I'm saying that you shouldn't ACT on those feelings as you are a man and you have NO understanding of emotions. Women are the ones that are expert in that department.
What you're going through is more like a combination of obsession, coupled with trying to fill a hole. If you think you need someone outside of yourself to provide you with love, security, support, emotional coddling, etc., then you are living a fallacy. You - YOU are the only person that can do ANYTHING about your feelings and your happiness. You mistakenly believe that if you could just GET THIS GIRL then all your problems would be solved. Belive me, they'd just be beginning.
Let this one go and pay attention to your behavior around this - are you listening to your emotions - if you are then STOP IT!
FP
2007-03-05 18:38:48 · answer #2 · answered by F. Perdurabo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I know how you feel right now. My gf broke up with me a few days ago because she no longer loved me, she just looked at me as a friend now. I still love her, but I'm trying to get over her, because no matter how much I beg and plead I cant change her feelings. You just have to move on, pursue other interests. Do things to keep your mind busy. If it wasn't meant to be then it wont happen. If she wants to be happy with you, then she will come to you. My gf wasn't happy being with someone she didn't love so leaving me was a necessary step in bringing her happiness again, even though it hurt me.
2007-03-05 18:37:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to make amends with her. If you haven't done so, tell her you are sorry for upsetting her all those months ago. Ask her if there is a chance for you two. Even if she doesn't respond the way you want her to, you may be able to resolve things for yourself.
2007-03-05 18:37:05 · answer #4 · answered by T Time 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think using a new girl to get over someone will work--it's unfair to the new girl and ur being untrue to yourself.
why did the other girl get angry? if u think u truly loved her--then maybe u did/do. ur friends don't know how u feel--they can only guess.
tryign talking to the girl you love. see why she got angry. try and be her friend and see if it helps.
2007-03-05 18:39:08 · answer #5 · answered by deepti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you just need someone to take your mind off her. apparently this girl isn't into you or ya'll would be together now. everything happens for a reason. maybe she just wasn't the one for you. but don't look for it, love will find you when you least expect it.
2007-03-05 18:37:22 · answer #6 · answered by trisha_r_c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go talk to her. Don`t just keep quety with the bullet in your heart.
2007-03-05 18:59:34 · answer #7 · answered by chuchuchu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have what is called "love", it may be your first love since you can't get her out of your head.
2007-03-05 18:35:09 · answer #8 · answered by powerdestini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to her house and give her flowers and apologize
2007-03-05 18:36:13 · answer #9 · answered by Faine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe this new girl is what you need to get over her....good luck
2007-03-05 18:34:37 · answer #10 · answered by NekoTeme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋