ok so i have a boyfriend. His name is colby. He never calls, hardly ever talks to me, and we have been going out for 40 days today and he still hasnt kissed me yet!!!! ni dont know what to do. i mean i like him alot but were not ever together. somebody help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i need some advise i dont know what to do..
2007-03-05 10:31:22 · 5 answers · asked by Softball Sweety 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dump him. he isnt taking the relationship seriously so find someone who will.
2007-03-05 10:37:21 · answer #1 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, who decided he was your boyfriend? I don't mean that as mean as it sounds. I simply mean, if you went out only once, that does not necessarily mean anything more. It means you went out once. Does that make sense?
Also, I personally admire his restraint in not kissing you. Count your blessings! Most guys, at a certain age, don't care about you; they only care about the _physical_ side of you--not who you are as a person. By not kissing you, he is showing you a sign of respect.
Honestly, I would wonder if he is actually your boyfriend, and if he considers himself that. Maybe it would be better to just leave it alone for a while. I know this is kind of hard to hear, but this is an observer's opinion.
2007-03-05 18:41:25 · answer #2 · answered by Kyeth 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either he is painfully shy and so afraid of being rejected that he doesnt have the guts to kiss you OR.................he is gay or is just going with you to look cool to his buddies.Ask him point blank what the deal is.
2007-03-05 18:35:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he isnt interacted much in ur relationship so u should leave him for someone who will be there for u. hope this helps!
2007-03-05 18:34:27 · answer #4 · answered by ~ *Amber* ~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is this kimberly???
2007-03-05 18:34:35 · answer #5 · answered by ~*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋