We have only gone out twice, but he checks to see if anyone else wrote him everday. I know it's too soon to tell, but is it wrong for me to be concerned that he's a player.
2007-03-05 10:01:44 · 15 answers · asked by dab1121 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're absolutely right to be concerned. But I don't know if it's your place to "have him" take his profile down. It's a dicey situation because we always get like, six good matches all at once on those damn sites. So no matter who you ask out, you're two-timing immediately. I think what has to happen is that you both have freedom to date others, and when you no longer WANT to, THEN that's when you're a couple. But I sure don't know. I'm struggling with that too.
2007-03-05 10:08:15 · answer #1 · answered by All hat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not wrong for you to be concerned however it is not your place to take down his profile.. you have only gone out a couple times. There is no ring on your finger..Maybe he is a player but as you said It is too soon to tell.
2007-03-05 10:08:13 · answer #2 · answered by jodes_71 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have only gone out with a couple times, it is still too early I think for you to request him to take his profile down. After a couple more dates if you two are still interested in each other, then he should take his profile down.
2007-03-05 10:05:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he should be concerned that you are WAY TOO CONTROLING!!!! how do you know he is still on there if you aren't on there checking on him. Are you really paranoid about this guy after 2 dates? Would you really REQUIRE him to take down his profile. Miss you gotta relax. I wish I knew this guys profile cause I would tell him to watch out!!
2007-03-05 10:05:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's too soon for that. You both need to have agreed not to see other people first before you ask for that. I've been doing the online dating thing. It's just the way it works, if you aren't exclusive, you can't ask that of someone.
2007-03-05 10:05:48 · answer #5 · answered by debrenee211 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after 5 dates tell him to take it down so u know ur not getting played if u don't it will crush u in the end
2007-03-05 10:05:28 · answer #6 · answered by missy A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you expect! Of course he is going to check it out. He find someone better. He obviously is keeping his options open. Two dates isn't a marriage.
2007-03-05 10:06:13 · answer #7 · answered by jennifer W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever! You're not committed, and neither is he--so why should he take his profile down? Date him a little longer--become a couple, then you can demand that!
2007-03-05 10:05:14 · answer #8 · answered by f8_smyled 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have dialogue and figure out what you both expect...After 2 dates he may not think of you as a steady yet...so discuss
2007-03-05 10:05:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've only gone out twice I wouldn't worry about it.
2007-03-05 10:07:13 · answer #10 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋