Im more then positive this girl likes me and i told her last week i liked her and now shes giving me the cold shoulder. All she says now is hi & bye with a smile. Why she doing this? Should i ignore her back or chase her? Im shy & terrible around woman, shes shy too though. I like her alot!
2007-03-05 09:58:19 · 17 answers · asked by (A)+(E) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I do not envy your position man. I've been there I should know. I don't know how much you know about her, does she have a b/f already? did she just get out of a relationship? how close are you two as friends?
There are different things that can make girl act like that. One could be that, sence she's shy, she wants you to make the first move. Then again she could just not be interested and is too shy to confront you. If you've known her for a while, tell her this; you are sorry if you made her feel uncomfortable. that you greatly value your friendship with her, and that you don't want to put it at risk. And that you'd rather have her as a friend than not at all. After all you have to be friends before you can be anything else.
Now the ball's in her court. Even if you don't score a date with her, at least she'll talk to you again. And you never know, later down the road you scould form a relationship with her.
Hope this helps, good luck.
2007-03-05 10:14:03 · answer #1 · answered by Luviticus 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would try to ask her out, that is the only real soultion that exist. I know you said you where shy but the worst thing that can happen is that she will say no. I know you really would not want that becasue you really like her and you most likly would be sad if she did say no but how would you ever know if she likes you enless you ask her out.
2007-03-05 10:03:02 · answer #2 · answered by Rocketman 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well i think it was good that you told her you liked her, now she knows. i think you should give her sometime.... im sure she'll come around, and start talking to you more. being shy is okay, im shy too
2007-03-05 10:09:25 · answer #3 · answered by aminallover29 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just go for it man, last yr in biology class there was this hot grl and she had a bf and we flirted and when i told her i liked her she did the same. but at least i told her how i felt and there was a 50/50 chance of us happening but it didn't. oh well. just go for it. but if she keeps ignoring you let it go.
2007-03-05 10:03:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Baby, give it time.. you might've came a little to early, it happened to me before..but you took a chance and thats all that matters.. and if it went wrong.. learn from it.. that's what life is all about.. makeing mistakes and learning from them, that's all i can say, but wait awhile!
2007-03-05 10:02:24 · answer #5 · answered by ripmandy4ever 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her she is obviously not mature enough to handle it, move on and see if she starts chasing after you and if not then leave her be
2007-03-05 10:02:30 · answer #6 · answered by bebekaychic 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
she's probably even more shy then you so just keep saying hi! and pretty soon she'll strike up a convo with you.
2007-03-05 10:19:50 · answer #7 · answered by loveya1092 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she was playing hard to get with me it would be all over because i dont chase --- to me she is not interested so i would back off and not bother her --- best wishes
2007-03-05 10:06:58 · answer #8 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably,
Just ignore her. Yeah, you might have liked her, alot, but you never know, she might be playing hard to get.
2007-03-05 10:01:53 · answer #9 · answered by Arina 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you gotta be the one to break the shyness thing. give it a go, sounds like it could work out!
2007-03-05 10:01:32 · answer #10 · answered by j. deo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋