Ok so I like this guy and I don't know if he likes me. It's driving me crazy not telling him that I like him but I'm really scared. I'm ready for rejection but oddly enough I'm not ready for if he says yes. My friend likes him too so I don't think I can go out with him without hurting her so sayin "yes" if he asks me out is out of the question. I want to tell him through a note while including in that same note that we can't go out even if he likes me back but would that be kinda mean? Would it be wrong to tell him I like him and saying that We can't go out in the SAME note. Do you have any other ideas on how else to tell him??
2007-03-05 09:56:10 · 17 answers · asked by Mattie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
take chances or you'll never know what you've missed in life
2007-03-05 09:58:21 · answer #1 · answered by answer! this 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all don't you think it would be silly of you to even tell him you like him then tell him that ya'll can't go out. That may just make him think you are weird.
About your friend...well, does she know you like him as well? If she does talk to her about it and make sure you won't hurt her feelings if you make a move on him. If she does not know you may want to let her know. The point is that you and your friend need to get toghether and talk about this. Find out if she plans to make a move on him and see if it would be ok for you to do so if she isn't. Communication is the key. Now, if neither of you can make up ya'lls mind then you might think about moving on and finding someone else. There's more guys out there and one guy is not worth losing a friend over him. I mean a true friend can last you forever when a boyfriend may only last you a month. Give it some thought and I hope this helped.
2007-03-05 18:09:43 · answer #2 · answered by kcthespian_86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, just tell him. Don't be so afraid of another person! He might be really flattered that you have the guts to tell him.
All's fair in love and war--so if you get him first, then it looks like your friend's out of luck! Both of you can't have him! You'll never know who he likes unless one of you actually asks!
2007-03-05 18:02:41 · answer #3 · answered by f8_smyled 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you?? hun, you should just tell him face-face. talk it over with your friend and ask her if its alright you date this guy. she can't stop you from dating anybody; not even if she likes the SAME person! i had to confront all the guys i liked. my bff liked the same guy as me once, also. she asked him out first, and he rejected her, so i went for it. just be brave. don't worry about your friend. if she wanted him badd enough, she would have already asked him out. its your time to ask him out before its too late. hope i helped!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-05 18:03:15 · answer #4 · answered by u_no_u_want_me_boyzz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is just lame... if your asking a bunch of internet strangers advice on your love life you must be lacking confidence and self-esteem. I mean come on its one guy this world is full of guys, just move past it. Especially if you wouldn't date him anyway. This question is childish and completely ridiculous. If you are over the age of 16 you have problems.
2007-03-05 18:02:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out more about how much your friend really likes him. If she likes him more than you, just find another guy, it's not worth losing your friend over a crush.
2007-03-05 18:01:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take chances.. risk a little something, thats life you make mistakes and you have to learn from them..so sweetie take a chance,okay!!
2007-03-05 18:00:11 · answer #7 · answered by ripmandy4ever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it's not fair for you to baby your friend's feelings. If he likes you, and you like him then there is nothing your friend can do about it and if she's going to be a big ***** about it then that is her problem.
2007-03-05 18:02:02 · answer #8 · answered by Tina J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends ALWAYS comes first! Ask her if she's ok with u asking him out and if she's not...oh well. Plenty of other fish in the sea.
2007-03-05 18:01:19 · answer #9 · answered by bubbly_blond34241 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your not going to go out with him, why tell him that you like him? Ego? Move on....
2007-03-05 17:59:28 · answer #10 · answered by NakasEvilTwin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋