no matter how bad or good a relationship was, would ex will ever get out of your life completely ...!! I meant whether you're a dumper or a dumpee ..., and even years later .., isn't there times when you think about your ex ? wish that you could see her or him ..? wish you could have been with him for a moment ...? well, things like that, if you understand I see ...does it happen to you sometimes ...? does some of you completely forget your ex, especially your 1st ?
2007-03-05 09:55:09 · 14 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK. this is my Kleenex moment but what the hell. there must be a reason why i am telling you this. my answer is yes and no. some really did get out of my life. of course, I remember who they are. Although I wish them good, have no hard feelings, i do not consider them close or friends, a bit like you would feel towards your neighbor (if he/she is cool). i do not think about them, let alone wish i could see them. But one exception: One of my ex-boyfriends will stay all my life. because it was the truest relationship i ever had. Years later after we broke up, we would still care very much for each other (as friends), we trusted each other and nothing could take it away. although things did not work out as a couple, our friendship was there to stay. Post-Scrip tum: to show you how much he never left my mind: He died in an accident a few years ago. my family did not want me to find out and kept it a secret. During the same time, I kept asking my mother about him, how he was,... since she still had contact with his family. for some reason, I could feel something was up albeit an ocean separating us. i found out about the accident 2 years ago. my grandmother told me.
2007-03-05 10:23:45 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once in a great while I think about the first girl I ever had a serious relationship with. I remember the good times and how whacked she turned out to be. That usually does it for me.
Try not to dwell on the past too much. There was a reason why it didn't work out. Remember that and keep moving foreward.
2007-03-05 18:01:05 · answer #2 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well an ex is still part of your life...part of life that you guys shared, so it's normal to have thoughts.....however you have to draw the line of how much if affects your present life and relationships. It's one thing to think...but it's another to let it unfairly interfere with your current relationships. I just got out of a 5 year relationship 2 years ago, and I'm in a super happy relationship now. I do think back seldomly...but nothing would change how much love and devotion I have to my bf now.
2007-03-05 17:59:40 · answer #3 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went out with a guy for a year and a half, he was my first love. It's been 4 months since we broke up. I'm over him now but yes, i still do think about it. And i always will. He was my first love and that's never going to leave me. And for the ones we love deeply there's always going to be a place for them in our hearts... no matter what. You shared memories, feelings, and you learned about yourself with each other... it's and expirience in life that you just have to take and learn from.
2007-03-05 18:01:31 · answer #4 · answered by Beachblonde14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to forget anyone you've had a relationship with. Good or bad. After my divorce, all I wanted to do was forget about my ex. That is just humanly impossible. We just have to accept the situation for what it was and move on. It's extremely difficult and it does take time so be patient with yourself.
2007-03-05 18:01:18 · answer #5 · answered by Grapes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, your first will stay with you pretty much forever. Eventually, all the bad things just sort of fade away and you remember all the good things and smile. Even when you are blissfully happy with someone new, and things seem perfect, your first will pop into your head at the weirdest time, and you will just smile and think of the good times. It won't mean that you are not over them, it just means that you will always, always, always remember your first love.
2007-03-05 17:59:51 · answer #6 · answered by It's Just My Opinion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is normal to think about them now and then for passing seconds but it doesn't make us feel sad...becoz we have moved on. Now if you haven't moved on, that's a different thing. Ex's become part of our memories. Sometimes we end up never thinking bout them...and sometimes, they come in our thoughts for a few seconds.
2007-03-05 18:02:03 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no we never completely forget, and i don't think they forget us either, no matter how bad the breakup was. years later after we think we have long forgotten someone our minds go back to that person, and certain memories come back to us. time nor distance can ever make us completely forget someone we have loved, even if they didn't love us.
2007-03-05 18:00:39 · answer #8 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God yes I forgot and never think of her in any way that is special.
But I'm a MAN not some chick reading stupid girly magizines.
2007-03-05 17:58:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, i think that the person gets more than just romatically tied, we talk like them act like tham, and think like they do.
when a connection is that deep, you become one for a while, and that can never be lost...
totally normal, and no there is no answer or way to stop it, unfortunatley.
good luck wit that
2007-03-05 18:01:46 · answer #10 · answered by Seerin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋