my girlfriend isn't happy at me because she thinks that i don't want her to come out with me and my mates, the reason for that is because they are not fond on her cos she's cheated on me four times..
I'm with my girlfriend about 6 days a week, on average, and enjoy a night with the mates as i hardly ever get one..
what do i do?
2007-03-05 09:52:09 · 45 answers · asked by 18/M/Scotland 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are an idiot for staying with your girl after she cheated on you four times!! Dump the girl already, you deserve better
2007-03-05 09:55:36 · answer #1 · answered by Nic-Nic 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to back off. She shouldn't want to spend time with u when u are out with ur mates, u need ur space. Explain it to her. If not then tell her the truth, that ur friends don't like her and the reason u don't want her to come out with u lot is that u don't want her to be hurt by the way they may un/intentionally treat her. Bu ti would recommend that u find urself a new gf if she's cheated on u 4 times, u deserve someone better, who values u rather than tries to suffocate u by wanting to be with u all the time.
2007-03-05 09:58:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's cheated on you 4 times. CHRIST, no wonder you don't want her to go out with you and your mates.
If she was my girlfriend she would have been gone the second time she cheated. I say second because everyone deserves a second chance. Get rid mate and find someone who wants you and not you and someone else
2007-03-05 09:58:34 · answer #3 · answered by martin m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep going out with her and ignoring your mates and one day you will wake up and realise that because you were such a blind idiot you have no friends left. If you keep ignoring them to stay with her they will give up on you. Im sure your mates love you but everyone has a limit. Do you really want to end up so alone that the only person that you talk to is a cheat who dosent give a **** about your feelings?
2007-03-05 10:40:10 · answer #4 · answered by Peaches 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love your girlfriend? That my question. If no, then it is not a big deal. If yes then what your friends think of her does not and should not matter at all to you. You should take her out sometime and be with your friends together but at the same time you have to let her know that sometimes you need to be alone with your friends( but it doesn't mean that you don't love her) . Even if they don't like her they have to at least respect her because she is your girlfriend.
You must love your girlfriend since she cheated on you four time and you are still together. Let your friends know that.The choice is yours not theirs, Good luck
2007-03-05 10:03:01 · answer #5 · answered by Missy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will always have your mates, and it's wrong of your girlfriend to try and stop you from enjoying their company. Tell her that you are going to spend one night a week out with your mates. If she doesn't like it, then she's not worth having. She's too possessive.
2007-03-05 10:04:56 · answer #6 · answered by Sandee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's cheated on you four times and she doesn't like you going out with your mates, it's because she judges you by her own immoral standards. I'd give her the push if you want to avoid future misery. Not all girls are like this, you know!
2007-03-05 09:57:23 · answer #7 · answered by Ahwell 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
who cares if your girlfriend isn't happy with you i say you go out and have a threesome with two girls tape it then send her the tape so she can see it and at the end of the tape "say was that as good for you as it was for me!!"...because you might be able to forgive once for that but four times is just saying that either she thinks your not good in bed or she just needs to have multiple partners. Either way dump her ***. You don't deserve it
2007-03-05 10:09:55 · answer #8 · answered by Alex H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is way too "clingy". Six nights a week with her is more than enough. You should both have time for your own friends without the other bring present. Doesn't she have her own friends to spend time with? I would tell her you need to spend time with your mates without her. If she doesn't understand this then I would break the relationship with her.
2007-03-05 10:00:48 · answer #9 · answered by Alex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being cheated on once you can forgive and forget,twice you can try and forget but, come on 4 times?,i`m not surprised your mates don`t think much of her and don`t want to be in her company for treating you like that.Either dump her or tell your friends to try and get on with her for your sake,but she doesn`t have to tag along every time your out with your mates,maybe if your friends gf`s are there too.
2007-03-05 10:04:24 · answer #10 · answered by onlyme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋