i caught him cleaning a gun in the room(we share)with my nephews(twins2yrs) were in there playin,he made her pick up(drugs)for him(hes a drugdealer)now she recently moved to VA and me nd(2 older sisters)dont talk 2 her.AT ALL we refuse to..my mother was recently in the hospital for breathing prob(stress)and she kinda push that it was our fault for not getting along and the hatred between us. we used to 9b4 she left) get in to constint fights(serious fights) ex.i bused her in her head wit a glass bowl because she punched me in my face for plugging out her radio(it was blasting)while i was trying to do my h.w(honor student)so police came(nearly went 2 juvi) then her and my other sisters got into fights for her betrayal and buisness spreading in the neighborhood.she got resigned from her name as the preety hard working girl to the lowlife bum(dirty.she has recently came to NY and argued for $2,000(nearly went to court)with my mom.mom lub ha.now she(sis)has internalbleeding.how wud u deal?
2007-03-05 09:48:19 · 17 answers · asked by cookiezzz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your family sounds more dysfunctional than the Osbourne's...
spell check anyone?
2007-03-05 09:52:53 · answer #1 · answered by Candy 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
First of all get to go in a room and talk with your sister alone. Tell her you have noticed a change in the way she has acted and its not for the good. If she ever attempts to hurt you anywhere anytime for whatever reason walk out of the room, and get help, and im not kidding. Dont say anything to her if she tries to hurt you either just get out of there. I would also tell her about her boyfriend, and ask her if she knows if he is a drugdealer! Tell her the dangers of drugs. Then just leave it at that, and say im going (somewhere) and if you wanna talk again call.
2007-03-05 09:54:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Geez. You guys need to find some peace--volunteer your time helping those less fortunate and take your mind off of your problems. It seems like you're too caught up in details!
But u need to get rid of that guy--he has guns around children and drugs won't help your cases either. Before long, someone in your family is going to end up in jail. It's just as easy as calling the police and telling them this guy is harrassing you!
2007-03-05 09:56:25 · answer #3 · answered by f8_smyled 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys need to put her out. Go to the police station and have a restraining order put against your sister and her bf. If you see drugs or a gun in your house leave and go to the payphone and call the police. If you have any relatives you can stay with ask can you come and stay with them because you dont feel safe in your house. If your mother is in the hospital and your sister is the only adult there. Id suggest you talk to your school counselor and ask them whats the best thing to do, they should have some numbers to call to get you and your mom to safety. God bless I hope you and your mom stay safe
2007-03-05 09:54:23 · answer #4 · answered by FauxDr 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your family is messed up. Like Jerry-Springer messed up. You have bigger problems than what scumbag your sister is dating. It's normal for sisters to argue, but you shouldn't be hitting each other, that's taking it too far.
But if she has moved out you don't need to worry about her or what mess she is making of her life. Focus on you and your mother. Get your life on track and promise you won't make the same mistakes the rest of your family. Don't get involved with your sister's life - she'll change if and when she's ready to.
2007-03-05 09:56:14 · answer #5 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow that sounds like your in a tough situation!! If I were you I would move out! you sound like a good student...dont ruin your future! Also dont interfere if your sis cant realize what a freak she is dating it is not your prob!! Stay away from him!! Do you have any decent realtives ?? check if you can move in with them... What about your parents..?? See if they will take a stand against this... If none of this works go on with your normal life!! I mean ignore the bad behavior !! DONT LET IT BOTHER YOU!!
2007-03-05 09:54:11 · answer #6 · answered by lynette 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow you need to write a book. life has its ups and downs., this may be the floor and it only goes up from here. your sister will make her own decisions. even if the person she is with is a bad person she has to realize that. try to surrond yourself with good and positive ppl like a best friend or a counselor at school. stay strong !
good luck
2007-03-05 10:12:05 · answer #7 · answered by Eyelovme2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
assult is a matter for the police. you need a restraining order. And you need to distance yourself as far as you can. I always say If you won't let me help then remember I will be there to pick up the pieces when it is over. But call the police. I know you don't want to do that but for your sake and your sister you have to . she won't learn otherwise.
2007-03-05 09:52:55 · answer #8 · answered by Shelly t 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
stay out of it and take care of ur mom ,if ur sis wants to throw her life away then thats her problem.
I had the same problem with my sis who was seeing a guy who beat her , we fought all the time cause of him . she married him and had 2 kids 8 yrs, later SHE SAW THE LIGHT and left the bastard . see only ur sis can make the decision all u can do is pray for ur family ,thats the only one u get. and stay on the right track to make ur mom proud.
2007-03-05 09:52:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i have problems to. not the same ones but close. what i do is hang in there and once i turn 18 im OUT!
2007-03-05 09:53:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋