my brother dosent talk to me because of the wife tells him what to do.
2007-03-05 09:47:29 · 10 answers · asked by jazz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You need to find a way and talk to your brother. My brother's now ex-wife liked controlling him. She didn't keep us away from him though. I just kept on him to get a backbone and stand up for himself Finally it happened. But he's gonna have to do it for himself. But I would definitely find a way to talk to him. There is no reason for you not to be talking to your family.
2007-03-05 09:56:30 · answer #1 · answered by debrenee211 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your brother enjoys being told what to do who knows? What ever problem you have with his wife the two of you need to sort it out. I'm sure if you wish to see your brother for an hour or so you could put up with her for his sake. If you don't want to contact him at home maybe you could contact him while he is at work. Maybe your brother doesn't wish to talk to you because of the way you have treated his wife.Sit down with him & his wife and your family & try to work it out other than that his wife is first now, & you will either have to deal with it or get over it.
2007-03-06 07:16:07 · answer #2 · answered by Vera K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your brother is not speaking to you because you have a problem with his wife. He married her and she comes first. You need to have a relationship with your brother and not cause problems in there marriage. You can be nice and respectful to her but, keep your distance while having a relationship with him.
2007-03-09 16:13:56 · answer #3 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried developing a relationship with the wife? Call her up and ask her how everythings been going. Befriend her. Kill her with kindness. Sometimes we have to take the bitter with the sweet. Maybe developing a relationship with her will release something and things can get better for you and your brother.
2007-03-05 17:56:49 · answer #4 · answered by Sunshine4u2njoy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
At leasts make the attempts to speak to your brother. If you do that he has nobody to blame but himself and his wife. I have two sons who will not speak to each other because of this. If you at least make your attempts you know your conscious is clear, and it was not your fault because you tried. That is all you can do.
2007-03-05 18:58:39 · answer #5 · answered by Don't Know 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you guys only showed genuine interest in him and never in her? did you really include her as part of the family? if yes--then try writing to her, tell her you miss seeing them, they are a married couple, bible says 'forsaking all others', so your way to him is through her. do not try to manipulate him behind her back. He sleeps with her, can you compete with that?
2007-03-05 18:17:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you can figure out a time she's not around so you can tell him you love and miss him. Call him at work, wait for her to go to work. You'll figure it out
2007-03-05 18:14:30 · answer #7 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For his birthday and Christmas, give him a pair of pants. Maybe he'll get the hint.
2007-03-05 17:54:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Looking from the other side of the fence.... let them alone!
He said "I do" to her. She is first, not you. Let it go and eventually things will fall into place. I lost my husband to a family that made sure they were first in his life and they put me "in my place" after all, I was not blood. She wants one of two things:
to be first in his life or for him to have the guts to stand up to her and be a man. She needs to toughen him up. He sounds like a wimp or he has just given up.
2007-03-05 18:37:21 · answer #9 · answered by COOKIE 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
dude that is...... i donno
2007-03-05 17:54:08 · answer #10 · answered by step-on-me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋