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Question

im an artist who in the last 4 years has been nominated twice for a grammy,also i have won other awards because of my singing,iv been married for about ten yrs ,recently my wife has been complaining about not being able to come with me on some of my concerts because of finances,also she says that if she cant go then no one goes,out of respect for her and the fact that i dont want to upset her ,i have stopped doing shows,needless to say our finances have suffered because of it ,so i took a job at a school for troubled teens,i really enjoyed this job until my wife phoned my boss [who is female]and accussed her of having a affair with me ,as i sat there my boss handed me the phone and said ''i think its for you ''.i lost my job but got another at another school where she did the same thing ,so again i find myself unemployed,i love my family but i feel like this is not an equal partnership.im also finding that my wife confides in her family and not me,ps...i have never been unfaithful

any advice would be helpful

Answer 1

It sounds like your wife has some insecurity issues. You have to work on them. Try going to a marriage counselor so you can get down to the root of the problem. You must really love your family to put up with how she treats you. If you figure out what the real problem is things should get better. Maybe her family has something to do with the problem. If you solve her insecurity issues things should get better for you. Doesn't she understand that you have to have a job to pay bills? I hope things get better for you. Good Luck!!!

Answer 2

Congratulations on the Grammy nominations! That's quite an accomplishment. Your wife should be rooting for you. She is very insecure so she's doing something she thinks is good for the marriage or at least to her advantage. I don't know how old your wife is -- but she sounds very immature. I definitely suggest family counseling.

So sorry about all the things that happen to you. Good luck with your new endeavor and I hope you will get nominated again and get to go this time. I'm rooting for you. Hug and smile.

Answer 3

Talk to her that is the best advice anyone could give you none of us here can tell you what she is feeling or what is in her heart you need to sit down with her and have a real conversation about this tell her your feelings and ask about hers explain to her in a calm voice that you need to get a job and keep it and you cant do that if she keeps accusing your boss of things that arent happening tell her that you love her and you would never even think about having an affair because you cannot even imagen being with another woman and that you love and respect her to much to even consider it give her your word that nothing has or will even come between the 2 of you and that if she ever gets the idea that something is happening that she needs to just come to you directly and ask because thats what marriag is about being open and honest is vital to your relationship

Answer 4

Marriage Counceling...