I am in a really bad situation. I like a guy a lot, but I don't know how to flirt. I try but I always get to nervous to speek. I just need some flirting advice. I am only 15, I am really, really shy when it comes to guys. I just need some really helpful hints.
Please be nice and clean.
2007-03-05 09:42:35 · 15 answers · asked by Andrea luvs u...maybe...lol 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
trust me on this, because the sooner you learn this the better. You have to stop trying to say and do things to try to get the guys to like you.....BE YOURSELF. If you don't you will attract the wrong guys, the guys who find flirting sexy. The guys who find smart sexy apreciate girls who are strong and are graceful. Be yourself and you will like what you attract.
2007-03-05 09:48:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take baby steps. The first week, just say hi. No matter how hard that is, you must do it! Once a day, every day, say hi.
Second week. Still say hi, and pick a day that he's wearing something that looks nice and compliment him. Guys love it when you compliment them. While passing him, say nice shirt or jacket or whatever.
Third week - still say hi everyday and pick a day that you are wearing something that looks extra nice and walk up to him and say hi, how are you, and ask what class he's on his way to and tell him what class your on your way to and say you heard the teacher he has is really cool, (or something like that). (if you think your face will flush, just make sure you have cold bottled water with you. When you're drinking water, your face usually won't turn red). At this point, a conversation will should start going.
Heck, you may have a good conversation in the first week! Guys are shy too. They can just fake that they're not. Good luck!
2007-03-05 10:04:41 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm also extremely shy, and this makes other people shy around me. For the most part, a guy will be receptive when a girl approaches him. I'm terrible at conversation, but they say that asking questions is the best way to start and keep a conversation going, but that's based on the theory that eventually the other person will start asking questions. I mean, one person can't ask the questions the whole time, so if they don't start asking, it all falls apart.
2007-03-05 09:53:38 · answer #3 · answered by perfectlybaked 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't flirt. Just be yourself. What you do to get a guy is what you'll have to do to keep him. Find out what interests him, and if you find something in common, start talking to him about that. It could be as simple as a super hard question on a test that you both took, or the obvious toupee of the principal.
2007-03-05 10:18:16 · answer #4 · answered by CeCe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not all about flirting.
Stay classy!! You can bring up small talk if you just want to have a conversation with him. Don't push it though.
Ask some simple questions, and see where it goes from there, try and get his vibes.
2007-03-05 09:47:43 · answer #5 · answered by Ms Brown Eyez 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Laugh with him. He'll then recognize having fun=being with you. that's the first step. Just laugh.
And of course be confident. Guys love it! Just believe in yourself. Who knows...he might like you and he's probally just as nervous as you! think about that next time you see him and it'll be a instant cofident booster!
good luck to you =]
2007-03-05 09:49:17 · answer #6 · answered by Beachblonde14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to find out what the guy does for fun or after classes. show up with some of your friends dressed cute renough to get his attention but be tasteful. you are only 15. i would say you should nt do more than try to get him to notice you. i think you are too young to actually approach a guy
2007-03-05 09:48:45 · answer #7 · answered by chohnsyro 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just smile at him, find someway to brush up against him like you had to bump him to get past and smile or wink. Stick a note in his locker say secret admirer.
2007-03-05 09:49:11 · answer #8 · answered by FauxDr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start by writing him a letter. Just make it fun and light. Nothing mushy and ask if he wants to "hang out" sometime.
2007-03-05 09:49:29 · answer #9 · answered by live, love, laugh often! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself, if the guys worth anything he will notice you without you flirting, good luck.
2007-03-05 09:47:00 · answer #10 · answered by veronica a 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋