come on poeple he looked at porno and masterbat****ewwwww should i?
2007-03-05 09:39:50 · 19 answers · asked by Mila 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, my philosophy is this: No second chances unless you are willing to wipe the slate clean and NEVER bring this issue up again. If you think it will always be in the back of your mind and if you think he may do it again (of course, he will!), I would say leave this dude alone and find yourself someone else.
I agree - there is something really pitiful about a man jacking off to porno. I guess I figure why fantasize when you can find a REAL woman? But, I guess that is just me....
2007-03-05 09:45:13 · answer #1 · answered by TwinkaTee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but before you break it off talk to him. In a relationship communication is key. Just ask him about him and tell him how you feel about what hes doing. If he disagrees with your feelings and refuses to stop then you might want to break it off. Becasue there is no point of being in a relationship, if you aren't happy about the major things happening in it. That is DEFFINETLY a major thing.
2007-03-05 17:45:50 · answer #2 · answered by babigurl34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make a big deal out of it. So YES give him another chance, but don't expect him to stop. It's just something guys do. It has nothing to do with you. Not a single thing.
2007-03-05 17:44:48 · answer #3 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
which guy doesnt?
He's a guy.. they are horny by nature. If you dont like it [which i dont, i think its sick also] tell him to lay off the porno.. but most likely he'll still masterbate
He's probably young.. only the young experimenting ones go hardcore on the porno/masterbation
2007-03-05 17:43:21 · answer #4 · answered by Iceshowers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men do that thing you know? He is not the only one doing it. If you think it is gross, then let him know so he could stop. Otherwise, well if he can't stop and you don't like what he is doing then do whatever you want to do. The choice is yours. Good luck
2007-03-05 17:46:22 · answer #5 · answered by Missy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is what a lot of guys do-it's not really a reflection on your relationship. However, it's up to you if you are willing to look past what he does in his free time.
2007-03-05 17:50:56 · answer #6 · answered by Annie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a guy its prob a natural thing for him to do , you just havent seen him do it before, give him a chance it wasnt as though he was with another gal.tell him though that your not happy about it and you would rather he didnt look at porn .
2007-03-05 17:44:06 · answer #7 · answered by veronica a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck no! This man violated your trust with one of the most horrible things he could find. Don't go back to that, for your own good. You will always feel inadequate for him because he's going elsewhere to get what he wants and not to you. Have patience, your man will come.
2007-03-05 17:44:32 · answer #8 · answered by GoatGirl 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well, considering I went through this awhile back... Depends upon what is important to you... For me, it was my children... I can forgive, but will never forget... I feel the same way as you... Why do you need me??? But my children needed him.... Things are much better now... So, think about it...
2007-03-05 17:44:10 · answer #9 · answered by Its me!!! :) 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends how he treats you.Like if he there for you give him another chance.If he treats you like trash you can find other options.
2007-03-05 17:48:39 · answer #10 · answered by Stephanie Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋