I'm scared of going on my bus in the afternoon because there are these two total whack jobs. They are the ones everyone thinks is funny, but I'm afraid of one of them. he and his friend call me doggirl but I didn't mind that. What I did mind was the one guy Steve sitting with and like saying (nice) stuff about me. It was really scary because no one could or would help me and Steve was like saying that I'm cute and hot and was asking if I'd marry him and crap (I'm only in 7th grade) so i was freaked out and when he heard Hayden (his friend) say like do her i think really scared me and stuff then he put him arm around my shoulder and i just looked away the entire time and he "tried" to kiss me and I cracked him in the jaw with my elbow. Anyway, should I tell my parents and get taken of the bus or should i tough it out until the end of school? No wise crack comments either please.
2007-03-05 09:37:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all way to go defending yourself with that elbow crack. NO means NO! with any physical contact. Tell your parents talk to a teacher and if you must ride the bus for a while longer sit next to a female friend or classmate so those boys can't get too close to you. Also if you have a good bus driver make sure you tell him or her. You should never be afraid to ride the bus you are in the 7th grade and there are adults all over the place in your life whose job it is to protect you.
2007-03-13 10:13:43 · answer #1 · answered by teresacmt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let your parents know that this immature kid is harrassing you. Noone should ever make you feel that uncomfortable where you're dreading that bus ride to school. Maybe you could sit in the front? Try talking to the bus driver into saving you a seat towards the front, I know that the cool place is towards the back, but school is more important than some distraction like that annoying guy. Or you could face him yourself - tell him, "hey, keep your hands off of me, you're just not my type" - this should get the kids to laugh and hopefully make him stop.
2007-03-05 17:44:55 · answer #2 · answered by HappilyEverAfter 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If that's a school bus you should get the school involved by...
1. Telling your parents and having them call the school.
2. Talk to a school counsellor or teacher.
Do both if you feel comfortable. If its a public bus always try to sit as close to the front as possible. And try if you can to sit with some friends. Remember you haven't done anything wrong and you have the right to a safe ride.
2007-03-05 17:51:06 · answer #3 · answered by Chantilylace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is pretty intense!! For all I know he's not into you and he just wanna "GET" some. Don't be scared and face that @s$ head on. Show them you're more powerful than they think you are. If you're not gonna do anything, it'll be even more worse for you as days go by. Tell him to F#CK off if he comes near. Threat him that you tell on the teachers, but that will make you a tattle-teller. BE TOUGH AND STAND TOUGH. NEVER BACK DOWN FROM THE FIGHT. And when you win, you'll feel good about yourself. But don't go to the extreme where he will use abuse. Just tell him you don't like his wise jokes and you don't think he's funny and to leave you alone because whatever he say to you are meaningless and worthless. If he would not leave you, PLEASE, do tell an adult!!!! PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-05 17:47:48 · answer #4 · answered by lAVi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something very similar happened to me. Try sitting toward the front of the bus behind the bus driver. Chances are they won't bother you there. I would be offended by "doggirl"...which I'm sure you are not...boys are mean. If you cannot get them to leave you alone, they are sexually harrassing you...you must put a stop to it.
2007-03-13 12:18:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course tell ur parents!!!!!!!!!!!
get off of that bus before things go to far!
they could follow u home.
u could end up getting touched in a way that the police will get involved. if u were my daughter i would want to know that kind of stuff so i can protect u.
2007-03-05 17:41:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell somebody, sit in the front of the bus, do something about it... don't just suffer through it. What if something worse happens? Then you'll regret not doing something about it.
2007-03-05 17:41:26 · answer #7 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, this is just going to get worse. Tell the bus driver; it is his/her responsibility to make sure you are safe on that bus !! The bus driver can take care of that. If you are uncomfortable with that, then please confide in your parents. they will not blame you, and they will know what to do.
2007-03-05 17:45:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let someone know, It won't get any better. Things will probably get worse. As long as you do nothing he will think it's ok. Everyday he will push to see how much further he can take it. Tell Someone!!!1
2007-03-13 17:38:53 · answer #9 · answered by Jordyn$ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Share your plight with parents or someone in the office of your school!!! Harassment is never ok, and should be reported ASAP!!!
I hope this helps,
Lonnie
2007-03-05 17:41:07 · answer #10 · answered by lonnie_m_d 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋