we have been dating for a year now!!
and we've been through so much.. jail,death,and major sickness together!!
and laghtly i cant go anywhere with out him getting majorly mad at me!!
Hes in trouble so he can never go....
Like just last weekend i went out with my friends and we where going to go to another town for shopping(it was kinda last minite) and i couldent go cause my boyfriend got really mad at me!!
so now all my friends are mad at me and think im picking him over them!!! ( wich i kinda iam but i dont know how to change it)
i feel really bad for both but i wont to have fun with my girls but still have my Bf!!
i Dont know what to do!!
He always getts what he wonts with us!! and i dont know how to get the power back!!
Help Me!!!!
2007-03-05 09:22:40 · 5 answers · asked by davine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're obviously letting him boss you around... go out and have fun with your friends, if he's worth keeping, it won't be that big of a deal. And if he makes it a big deal and tries to tell you what to do with your life, then he's not worth keeping. He'll never stop being jealous like that, believe me.. I've been in the same boat as you, and it's really not worth the trouble. There are plenty of guys out there that will respect you and what you want to do... you don't need to stick with the overprotective jealous as.s...
2007-03-05 09:28:26 · answer #1 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. At best, you have a controlling, demanding sniveling baby that's seriously handicapping your life. At worse, it's the beginning of an abusive relationship. Either way, you can do so much better.
2007-03-05 17:27:35 · answer #2 · answered by M L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, he does have too much power, so tell him that u r going out with ur friends and if he has a problem with it, then he can wait for u to get back to tell you, and then sort it out, and tell him that u need to have control over your life,and how you feel, and that you love him so much, but he cant have complete control over your like like he is now.
2007-03-05 17:29:50 · answer #3 · answered by ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not about POWER,it's about CONTROLLING,which is what he is. WOW! all I can say is that good thing your not married to this guy,imagine what your life would be like.You'd have no friends,people don't want to deal with people like him,CONTROLLING He needs to learn to trust you
2007-03-05 17:31:21 · answer #4 · answered by happyfingers1@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM now before its too late and if he starts abusing you or getting even more aggressive tell somebody or you will end up making a HORRIBLE mistake!!
2007-03-05 17:28:20 · answer #5 · answered by lovin' it 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋