i broke up with my boy freind 4 times already and took him back and today i broke up with him again..he makes me be with him thats why...is that stupid???or what
2007-03-05 09:21:14 · 33 answers · asked by Mila 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thats not stupid you just dont want to let him go
2007-03-05 09:56:53 · answer #1 · answered by kiss helper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be very insecure to keep getting together with someone that you know won't work out. I think you need to reevaluate what you want out of a relationship before stepping back in again.
2007-03-05 09:29:31 · answer #2 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah that's stupid...no one can make you be with somebody. You must have a low opinion of yourself to let some tool control you. Get rid of him and never speak of the jerk again
2007-03-05 09:24:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very unhealthy start you have here. Stand up and be yourself. Nobody can "MAKE" you do anything, It's called free will.
You are doing this of your own free will. This is a bad cycle. Stop it and move on.
2007-03-05 09:26:37 · answer #4 · answered by Kimmie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah
2007-03-05 09:24:10 · answer #5 · answered by Aaron B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's "making you" go back with him.. then you dont let him respect you. You probably have low self esteem and do have feelings for him. But those feelings dont justify what he does to you... Im betting he's abusive [emotionally and verbally]. I advise to get away and try to forget him. block him from everything and move on
2007-03-05 09:26:29 · answer #6 · answered by Iceshowers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let him push you around and if he gets aggressive TELL somebody before you get stuck in a stickier situation!!!!!! AND do NOT keep taking him back because he'll take advantage of you and he probably knows by now that you're dependent on him-which is very BAD!!! best of luck and follow ur heart but be sensible.
2007-03-05 09:26:12 · answer #7 · answered by lovin' it 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships like that are doomed if they aren't based on love for the other then they will never work. If you mean he forces you to, I would seek help at your school or from a friend.
2007-03-05 09:25:51 · answer #8 · answered by Hoodie Hood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are missing something in your life, do not call yourself stupid, you are learning that is all, talk to your parents or a trusted friend about what is going in your life...
2007-03-05 09:25:09 · answer #9 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..he makes me be with him thats why...is that stupid???
No, that's not stupid. What is stupid is that you keep going back to him, each time.
2007-03-05 09:24:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋