Okay, so my boyfriend and I have been together for about 16 months now. Even though pretty much everybody knows we're together, there are still 5 or 6 girls who want him to be theirs, so they are always trying to impress him by flirting relentlessly and wearing especially revealing clothes around him, even when I'm standing right there! How do I "mark my territory" and give them hints to lay off without actually saying anything? These girls and I aren't exactly friends, so there is no way I'm going to talk to them! <3
2007-03-05 09:15:57 · 14 answers · asked by The Prep 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's used body language to get them to back off but it doesn't work. He also calls me over there when he sees them coming, but that doen't work either. And, he's even told one of them to lay off, but it seems to have gotten worse. <3
2007-03-05 09:17:23 · update #1
Well. If your boyfriend isn't going to have any relashionship with them, then theres no problem, you have to trust him if you want lol.
you might be just worried that they will steal him. But if he isn't doing anything with them you should'nt be worried (thats if hes not)
2007-03-05 09:22:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
gurl i know how you feel. i'll start to get black up in there but that's just me. u need to set them straight gurl tell them that if they don't leave ur man alone all hell is going to break loose. i glad to hear that ur man is not flirting back this tells u that he really likes or maybe loves u. juss keep trying girl.
2007-03-05 17:22:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, ignore them. If they still pestering you, go to the Principal and complain about their conduct.
Maybe they will be embarrassed by their actions if confronted by the principal and you and your friend.
It's worth a try.
2007-03-05 17:25:57 · answer #3 · answered by Trauemer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may be something hes doing when your not around always think outside the box, there is a reason they keep coming~sorry to say it like that
2007-03-05 17:21:22 · answer #4 · answered by CRY$T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to tell them look i have a g/f so stop acting like a tramp
2007-03-05 17:21:38 · answer #5 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey you got the same problem I do...you answered my one question...What I did was that I made sure that he wasn't into anyone else...and you know I trust him...it those damn girls that I don't trust...and thx for your comment on mine!
2007-03-05 17:39:23 · answer #6 · answered by n'ami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend to tell them if they don't back off he'll call the cops.
2007-03-05 17:21:51 · answer #7 · answered by Bootsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave it, he doesen't want to go to them, and you have a bond for 16 months which is preety strong. don't worry
2007-03-05 17:20:35 · answer #8 · answered by Pistonsfan101 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is a trials how strong ur love and his love for u , remind him u love him so much and not go to a temptation
2007-03-05 17:23:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's not about you. quit being so insecure. if you had any confidence in your man you wouldn't worry. clearly you think he's tempted...but then again, a man is only as faithfull as his options...
2007-03-05 17:19:53 · answer #10 · answered by Tacyella 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋