This sounds horrible, but I got high on Saturday night. I freaked out and ended up panicking and drove myself home. When I got home I informed my boyfriend. I expected him to be furious, but now it seems like he will never get over it. He told me he has never been this mad in my life. He kept telling me how I could have been pulled over, my license suspended, or even worse, I could have died. I know I messed up, but I really wanna make it up to him. What should I do? All day at school he's been with me, but it's not the same guy. He gives me kisses, but when we stop he looks so mad. What can I do to make this wrong a right? I promised I would never do it again. Please help!
2007-03-05 09:09:17 · 16 answers · asked by Cieeeee <3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's just angry. It was dangerous and irresponsible of you to drive like that. Besides what you could have done to yourself, think about what you could have done to some other innocent people travelling on the road with ya.
He'll cool off. Give him a bit of time. Let him know that you were sorry and that you will not put yourself and others in harm's way like that again.
2007-03-05 09:12:57 · answer #1 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you really can do is let him know how sorry you are and that u KNOW u messed up totally by driving under the influence. Has he had a friend or family member in the past who was hurt or even killed due to someone under the influence? U may just have scared him half to death! He loves u and doesnt want anything horrible to happen to u. Talk to him and tell him exactly how u feel- let him know it will never happen again and let him know how much u need his love and forgiveness. Give him a little time he will get over it and forgive you. Its out of love for u that he is worried is all! Thats A GOOD THING!
2007-03-05 09:14:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't seem like your boyfriend has forgiven you to his fullest. Hopefully you asked him to forgive you. The reason why he probably acting like this towards you is because he doesn't trust you. You have shown yourself as being irresponsible for what you have done by doing that to yourself. Your boyfriend saw you differently as to be responsible. So that changed his whole perspective towards you now. Your boyfriend was also concerned of your well being but at the same time was upset with you.
So, you need to go up to him again, tell him that you will never do that again, ever. Tell him that you were irresponsible for your actions and need his support for wanting to overcome these bad feelings. He needs to understand that you will not do this mistake again. So, be accountable for your words. And make a promise to him that you will not bring this up again and he will never bring up this episode again too. Make him a nice dinner and let him know that people make mistakes, but you are learning from this mistake that you made and want to make things right with him, and mean it!
2007-03-05 09:22:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all starts with time, he's absolutely right alot of bad things could have happened to you. Just suger him up with dinner and love, and at the end of it all tell him one more time he was right. It may take a lil while but it'll go away. sounds like he really loves you. good luck
Hope this helps
2007-03-05 09:15:22 · answer #4 · answered by walker9842 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell him that you learned your lesson and your never gonna do it again and you realize how serious the consequences are of your actions and you shouldn't of been so in mature to do it.and that you feel like you have lost something very important to your life which is him and you want the guy you used to know back.and tell him not to be so mad and upset about it most kids do use the drug it'll be OK just give it sometime tell him how you feel and how in mature you where to do it and that he could of lost you that night that's all it happened to me too
2007-03-05 09:15:48 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to get over it! You tried it, regretted it, and you moved on. So should he! He wants you to feel extra bad, it's a control thing.
Tell him he's the one with the problem and to give you a call when he grows up.
2007-03-05 09:14:20 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his behavior is kind of strange.i admire that he takes care of you,that means that he loves you but on the other hand i don't understand why is he mad.you should be mad at yourself and promise to yourself never to do it again.explain him that it is your life and you made a mistake that you really regret but he is over reacting.tell him to try to forget about it and to trust you again.in time he'll hardly mention it.
2007-03-05 09:19:54 · answer #7 · answered by bebelusha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just a matter of time ..he'll forget it ..
Just promise him again that you won't do it
and be ready to stand his madness for another week ..
but he'll end up by forgetting it ..
JUST WAIT AND WATCH :)
2007-03-05 09:18:19 · answer #8 · answered by ^^ANGEL^^ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm not trying to be mean or anything, but you got high so you have to pay the price.
2007-03-05 09:13:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
F U C K HIM! you are your own person. this is a sign of horrible control freak. get out while you still can!!!!
2007-03-05 09:13:12 · answer #10 · answered by Tacyella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋