I wrote him a letter but I never recieved an answer.He gave me alot of excuses. His friend said he said he wasn't interested. I have another problem too. Finding the courage to talk to him. I've never felt this way towards anyone outside my family. Am i in love? Someone help!!!!!!!!
2007-03-05 09:07:19 · 30 answers · asked by Music Makerr :) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi I am a girl too so I totally know what you are going through. I have a boyfriend and I only did it with these tips. You defiantly love this boy. He isn't interested, but that is OK, you need to act like you aren't interested and be yourself. You need to look more wonderful then you ever have and look beautiful and flirt with people. After awhile you will get tired of playing games and you will have the courage to come right up to him and talk. You want him to want you, You need to know that you are beautiful and everyone likes you. It is just a boy, but you really like him so you need to step it up and get to know him and talk to him.
2007-03-05 09:17:57 · answer #1 · answered by Kara R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should really try to forget about him. You're not in love, you can't talk to him so how would you know him well enough to be in love. You shouldn't want a guy that doesn't want you. He's shown that he's not interested so just try to move on. You can't make a guy like you. There's someone else out there who's meant for you.
2007-03-05 17:11:20 · answer #2 · answered by aka goddess 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't MAKE anyone like you but you CAN make yourself likeable! Just be yourself and be happy with who you are. If you are unsure of who you are, that will reflect in your personality and confuse others around you. I applaud you for taking that first step and telling this boy you liked him. Unfortunately, it sounds like he doesn't like you the same way. Don't worry. It's okay. You are better off knowing this then pondering about wether he did or didn't. You may be in love, but it's not your job to make him or anyone else like you. Just like yourself and find yourself and others will see you in a different way! Good luck and stay strong!
2007-03-05 17:16:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If his friends say that he is not interested, maybe he is not. If he can't write you back, don't pursue him. The power in being a beautiful and intelligent woman means, men chase you, you don't chase men. Try to ignore your feelings for him, cuz if he is not interested, he could end up hurting you. You won't have to work hard when you find the right guy.
2007-03-05 17:10:52 · answer #4 · answered by Cieeeee <3 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well...all I can say is to be yourself. You cant get a boy to like you a certain way if he just doesnt. You cant do anything about that. Even his friend said he wasnt interested. I think you have a crush on him which is normal :) Your too young to be stressing about this boy anyways.
2007-03-05 17:15:38 · answer #5 · answered by Crystal 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you could go up to him and just say hi, how are you. you could say forget about the letter, are we still friends. he might talk to you and you could go on from there. as for being in love, you think you are, and maybe you feel you are, but you sound so young, so you maybe just have strong good feelings for this boy. just be yourself and try to be happy. then you will find out.
2007-03-05 17:18:21 · answer #6 · answered by skyblue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but it is a waste of time to try to get a guy interested, when he has shown that he isn't. I'm sure you are a nice and sweet girl, so focus on you and just wait a little bit. Guys who like and deserve you will come along!
2007-03-05 17:11:48 · answer #7 · answered by Kerosa S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he's giving u excuses then chances are he doesn't like you, but flirt a little bit with other guys around him and see if he reacts. You can't always trust a guy's friends, but don't push it because you can't force love, but hey give it a shot.
best of luck
2007-03-06 15:00:37 · answer #8 · answered by lovin' it 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like him, but if you can't talk to him, you're not in love. Getting him to like you is well... I don't know about most other guys, but I'm generally fond of people who give me attention (ie talking to me). That may be due to the way I grew up, but I think that just being nice to them can help. But, if he doesn't want you around, don't push yourself on him.
2007-03-05 17:11:10 · answer #9 · answered by Linus 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Listen to his freinds. If they say he's not that in to you and he never responded to your letter, you'd be better off finding someone else. It sounds like he isn't that into you, and unfortunately he doens't have the courage to tell you himself.
2007-03-05 17:12:20 · answer #10 · answered by TooMuch 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋