Love At First Sight?

Question

Has Anyone Ever Fallen In Love Without Meeting A Person?
Do You Believe?

Answer 1

I'm pretty sure I loved him before we spoke- as sure as I can be. I mean, I don't know how I would have felt if we had not spoken- but I feel sure that I would have loved him no matter what.

Here's my whole answer.

Love at first sight is real. Or can be. Because true love is from God. I'm a Christian, I believe in God! And for that reason I believe that there is love at first sight. God sometimes maybe lets people (like me) see right away who He intended them to love and marry.

Love is different with everyone because we are all different! You can't describe true love for anyone! Everyone's experience of loving or being in love is totally unique. Because we area all unique! There are no hard and fast rules in love. Sometimes love at first sight is true. Sometimes it's not. Sometimes you really love someone you've dated for 10 years. Sometimes you ddon't.

I am so tired of the people that say smugly, "i believe in lust at first sight" because they don't know. I don't have problems with lust, and I have experienced that feeling of "wow, look, there he is, the guy I was created for". I just looked at his eyes from the side and I got that feeling. I wasn't looking at his body at all.
Please believe me- that even if it hasn't happened to you, or never will, it is POSSIBLE
Please do not listen to these other people. Although they mean well, I know personally that there can be real, true, lasting love (not LUST or INFATUATION! Boy am I sick of those dumb words! People just use them to sound grownup and wierd and fancy shmancy! {not to "dis" you other folks, but that's what it seems like to me :)} at first meeting- and yes, even at first sight.

As to what it feels like... everyone is totally different. If you think you are in love, and you love someone very much, more than any one else, than you ARE in love- for the time being. You may, who knows, some day, find someone else who you will be able to love even more. Not because you didn't love the first one- you did, as much as you could at the time. But each new person you fall in love with you seem to be able to love more.

Who can say whether we are all in love a dozen times in our life, or if we only "really" love one of those people, or if we never "truly" loved any of them?

Love is different for every person, at every different time. Sometimes it makes you sad, sometime it makes you happy, sometime insecure, sometimes confident. No one knows. But if you think you're in love, then tell yourself you are and go with your emotions, whether you become mournfully melancholy or exuberantly happy. There is nothing sweeter than feeling something deeply and telling yourself you're in love, whether it's for an hour or a lifetime- or eternity.

I fell in love from first sight with someone I have only met twice in the past two years I still am. For many reasons in a long story, we can't contact each other, nor do we "date" so there isn't a questions of all that "faithfulness" junk. But I knew at the first second that I was made for him and someday God will see we marry and live happily ever after. Sometime I will type up the whole story and post it on every "love at first sight" page and question and blog in the whole wide internet.

Again, I am not saying that love at first sight is the only right kind of love. Maybe you will hate the person you eventually fall in love with! Maybe it will take you years to gradually love them! Who knows? I am not saying that it is the only true kind of love. With some people, it may take a while to fall in love with their soulmate. But love at first sight is so very possible! Sometimes the good Lord is kind enough to show you right away. Like he showed me.
The moment I saw him standing there, I knew all about him. His character- how kind and sweet he was, how helpful and patient. And don't say I was judging a book by its cover. Later in the day I met up with him again and talked to him for five hours at that wedding reception. And my first impression- that split second thought of "this is who I was created for and am meant to marry" was strengthened. And he is in my every thought and dream. I don't give a passing thought or glance to anyone else- it's just out of the question. I’ve only seen him only 3 times over the years. It’s been so long. But I still love him! I do! It’s real!

I fell in love when I was only 13. But that’s how old Juliet was, and it was love at first sight and no one questions her! No one says “Oh, Juliet was so dumb, she didn’t REALLY love romeo, she just killed herself because she THOUGHT she did”. Why should people say that about me?

There is love at first sight.

Not lust.

Not infatuation.

Not a crush.

Not a passing attraction.

Real, true, lasting, beautiful, perfect love.

Believe!

Answer 2

I did! I was in New York for a long weekend visiting a friend. He had to leave me to my own devices on the Sunday afternoon and I spent the time before going to the airport for the red-eye back to London buying a few souveniers. I stopped for a coffee and found that everything I'd bought was for my Indonesian penpal. On the otherside of the street I saw an internet cafe. I e-mail her to say I was coming out to see her & proposed 4 days after meeting her. We've been married for nearly 5 years & have two boys.

Answer 3

I'm not so sure that can happen, i mean lust at first sight sure but LOVE. Guess it all depends on how you sum up love and for me it's a combination of Trust, honesty, respect and admiration to name but a few and you can't have that with someone you don't know just by looking at them, although i may one day be proved wrong.

Answer 4

I fell in love with my (current) boyfriend.. we met online and took us 9 months till we met face to face but we were in love after only a few months.. then as soon as we did meet face to face it was awesome, the feelings were even stronger, we felt attracted to each other so much, we liked each otehrs company and all in all made us for the better.. we're now still going stronger than ever and im moving to brisbane (aust) to be closer to him.. we've been togehter now bit over 12 months =)

Answer 5

I have... in fact i barely talk to the person but in my heart i still love her, but i never know if she feels the same... so i don't do anything. Yes love at first sight can happen.

Answer 6

Yes Def but could it be lust at the same time?

Has hap to me b4 love at first sight but usually ends in disaster lol

Answer 7

yes ! there was this one guy that i never had met befor that ever one was talking about . (He was a cutie )a few weeks later i bumped into me and we just started to talk and then i found out that he liked . The next thing we were going out for at least a month . so i think that it is possible to fall in love with someone you never met.

Answer 8

Nope, nope and nope. BTW - love at first sight means you HAVE met in person. That has nothing to do with an internet fling or anything similar.

Answer 9

nope i dont believe in love at first sight but i do believe in lust at first sight. i experience it everyday.

Answer 10

Maybe. Maybe Not. You could just like the person.