I want to totally get my boyfriend to want me and then I want to dump him. He doesnt want me out of his life but he doesnt want his ex out either they have been apart now for a year and they still have a long distance relationship! I found this out after we were dating for 3 months. I want him to realize that im here and she isnt and im the one he wants to be with him but im sick of his BS he cant play games with two girls, Ive been living with him for 7 months now and im fed up but i have no place else to go now. I want to get the ultamate revenge with him graveling at my feet for forgivness. what should I do?
2007-03-05 08:57:38 · 20 answers · asked by Loveabovetheuniverse 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol. get him bac wit u and break up wit him . lol or when u are about to get married say i dont. lol
2007-03-05 09:01:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play games with this guy. No revenge is really going to make you happy like you think it will. If he's into anoter girl then just leave him alone. You said that you have no where else to go but if you try to get revenge then you still won't have a place to go if he kicks you out. Just find a way to get out of there because you can't make someone want you. They should want to be with you for their own reason but making someone want you does not work at all. He'll realize how much you love and care after you are gone then he'll be at your feet to apologize for not realizing that he had a good woman. Good luck
2007-03-05 17:11:00 · answer #2 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him everything you just asked us. The person you are suppose to be with will always put you first in his life. No Matter who else is his friend. Explain to him that it hurts you and makes you feel bad that she is such a big part of his life and if he wants a committed relationship with you than he needs to realize that you arent going to put up with the way it is now. Dont play games back. It will only hurt you in the end. And if you are going to dump him and want to hurt him...than maybe you dont have as much of yourself invested in the relationship anyway. Just find a place to live and move on with your life. IF he comes begging for you back then go from there..but playing games is only going to turn out bad.
2007-03-05 17:05:46 · answer #3 · answered by molly M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge would be to move on I'm sure there is a family member somewhere you could stay with. He won't know what he is missing until it is gone and if he doesn't come begging for you to come back and tell you he is through with the other girl then he isn't worth it.
2007-03-05 17:03:41 · answer #4 · answered by sheila M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What good will it do for you with wanting to get revenge against your boyfriend? It will only make things worse.
What you need to do is leave him, because he still has feelings for his ex-girlfriend. Another wards, you are there just for the sex and you are being 'used' by him. So, you need to do what ever it takes to get yourself out and away from him.
I think by getting revenge, you are asking for trouble....so be mature about it and do what is right.
2007-03-05 17:03:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is NO revenge...because the opposite of Love is Indifference...think about it, it hurts much more to be seen as a non-person/entity
2007-03-05 17:00:49 · answer #6 · answered by sage seeker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge belongs to the Lord.
2007-03-05 17:02:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't care if it is cold outside wear miniskirts and skimpy tops, and at night when he comes home make sure it is dark with candlelight and music when he comes home for work make sure he finds you in your bed in skimpy skimpy lingerie, like thongs and corsets,He will totally dig in, make sure you like the sex and make sure it is rough and fun, make it feel so good, be sexy sexy sexy,Let him dig into you. For some sex toys go to a sex store that is in your town or around your town if you don't know were one is go to VICTORIA's SECRET, find foreplaying cards and play, don't forget to hump, hunch, and sqeeze. I had the same problem and this worked!
2007-03-05 17:08:08 · answer #8 · answered by Laurie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not capable of revenge because you wouldnt have to ask us how to put it on someone. If he cant commit to you because of an ex...GET OUT of the so called relationship.
2007-03-05 17:01:13 · answer #9 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, seduce him by wearing sexy outfits maybe stuff like that and then be sweet and take him out to dinner. Then that'll either make him fall inlove with you or wouldn't want to let you go. Then you can dump him. I know I wouldn't fall for that lol
2007-03-05 17:01:55 · answer #10 · answered by Chow Ming 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is why men have such flawed ideas about women. We aren't all like this. SOme of us are nice, normal, deal with it kinds of people. Some men are jerks just like some women are b****es.
You are already using him, what more do you want?
2007-03-05 17:01:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋