I got out of a long relationship with a girlfreind about a month ago. We hadn't spoken since, but one night last week she drunk dials me. I happened to be coming back from a party with plenty of booze so I was buzzed myself. She invites herself to my place and we hook up. Now she feels stupid. I don't know how the hell to take all this. Was this just a random hookup with an ex or does she still have feelings? Is this her way of saying she's changed? Or should I just let it go?
2007-03-05 08:53:20 · 8 answers · asked by TooMuch 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Drunk dails!!! well that can be both.Now if you have taken it as much more then Stop right there B4 your feeling's get hurt. If she hasn't called you since then,you bet it was just that. some times just the rush of knowing you can call your ex and still get some is all it take's. So just leave at that or call her to make sure everything is okay & your not misunderstood.I've done it and it WAS because i did still have alot of feeling's for that person..Good luck!
2007-03-05 09:03:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good decisions are never made under the influence of alcohol or other drugs. It was a moment or night of weakness brought on the the alcohol.
She may feel stupid because she doesn't know how you really feel. If you still have feelings for her, talk to her when neither of you have been drinking. An honest, open conversation will clear everything up. If she does not still have feelings for you, let her go gracefully. Let her know how you honestly feel and let her take it from there.
Don't believe the motives of any action taken or words said under the influence of alcohol. Better yet, completely eliminate the alcohol from your life and discover who you really are.
2007-03-05 09:10:24 · answer #2 · answered by friendlyadvice 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it go. To me it seems as if she was just having an horney moment and you were just the person to call up. Alot of females don't like to add another person to the list so they just call up the old ones. You both were a little buzzed up as you call it. And now that she feels stupid about it, it was nothing. Just let it go.
2007-03-05 09:00:15 · answer #3 · answered by tendertouch1117 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go, ex's are ex's for a reason no matter who broke up. It's just sometimes when yor drunk it's easier to do a booty call with someone you know.
2007-03-05 08:58:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe slight feelings intensified by the booze, but i'd let it go, maybe u can both be no strings attached
2007-03-05 08:57:37 · answer #5 · answered by chrisbowe82 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man that was just a booty call you got drunk the got F33cked leave it alone you dont owe her sh1t
2007-03-05 08:58:55 · answer #6 · answered by Call me Dick, Mr Head 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to know for sure is to confront her about it.
2007-03-05 08:58:21 · answer #7 · answered by jonpayne911 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her
2007-03-05 08:57:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋