Here are some clues of why i feel my b/f is cheating:
1. open C***** wrapper on the fall said he used it for something im too ashamed of even saying
2.lived with 2 female roomies one was known for getting around with EVERYONE!! and doing EVERYTHING
3. Has this couple as friends and when the boyfriend goes out of town my b/f made it his business to go to the girlfriends house with him not being there(their behavior together is weird to very werid)
4. has a past of cheating on his ex g/f claims he was totally wasted and dumb then and wouldnt do it again he cheated when he was 23
What do you guys think....
2007-03-05 08:52:47 · 44 answers · asked by KDizzle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like a cheater and you can do better!
2007-03-06 00:52:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well - the condum wrapper would make me wonder. I'm not sure about the other stuff. Just don't have enough info. to come to an educated decision on the other issues. For instance, how long have you been with him? How long ago did he live with the roommates? Cheating in the past is often a sign he might do it again but if he was drunk you never know.
2007-03-05 08:58:22 · answer #2 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer. I don;t want to come out and say he's cheating but his beahvior sounds like he's doing so.
-If he opened condom wrappers that's a big clue.
-If he syill lives with the two female roommates that's a big clue.
-If he goes to the other woman's house while the the husband is out of town that a really big clue.
-If he has a past of cheating on other women that a big clue
I say you might need to find another man in your life. Good luck
2007-03-05 09:00:51 · answer #3 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
....I always say,..."if you ever have an ounce of doubt in your feelings about being with someone?....your feelings usually more often then not are quite justified. Trust is huge in any God given relationship you'll ever encounter. If this guy has cheated else ware?...he's probably simply replaying his broken minded record with you darling. Cheaters simply are always gonna be cheaters. They simply can't help themselves otherwise. Dump the cheater before you become one too! It's better to be single and have some personal integrity then to playing with the absent minded cheater really. You know which side of the bread you like buttered ...don't you? Butter the bastard right out of you life. You'll end up feeling foolish eventually yourself if you don't. Good luck to you....and get busy!
2007-03-05 09:17:06 · answer #4 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4. has a past of cheating on his ex g/f claims he was totally wasted and dumb then and wouldn't do it again he cheated when he was 23
Now being young, dumb, and wasted is not a good reason to cheat on your girlfriend. There was something inside of his conscience that made him want to cheat. I think people show their real colors when they are drunk!
2007-03-05 08:57:45 · answer #5 · answered by Quest 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
once you're thinking, it in all probability is. each time you sense an emotional connection with somebody else, any style of touch that feels intimate - must be in simple terms conversing or texting, yet feels close, brings you nearer to that person - is cheating. whilst you at the instant are not emotionally in touch, then those self same issues are in simple terms friendly. additionally i'm assuming by potential of kissing you propose a kiss on the cheek, because of fact on the mouth or deep kissing is definitely around the line.
2016-10-17 08:29:09 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that youre askin perfect strangers to validate your trust in yout bf is no good! go with your gut, its always right. cheating is a hard pattern to break, even if the cheater really wants to. if you are gonna stick with this guy and hope that hes left that in his past, you must throw caution to the wind and full out trust him without needing him to reassure you all the time, and it doesnt sound like thats gonna happen. good luck!
2007-03-05 08:58:26 · answer #7 · answered by j. deo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that his actual cheating might not be the true problem. If you feel like you can't trust him then you might not be able to get past that. If he is doing things that might be a little sketchy I don't think that he is sincere, no matter how much he tells you he is.
2007-03-05 08:58:35 · answer #8 · answered by Chetney W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truthfully I am a guy and I would never do that to my baby. If he's doing that I would suspect him, but if he had a history for cheating, dump him right away no matter what he says, that's just going too far!
2007-03-05 08:57:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating!!
2007-03-05 22:32:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not be cheating, but the fact that you are wondering if he is cheating is a pretty big clue that you don't trust him. Since trust is the cornerstone for any solid relationship it might be time to reevaluate your situation.
2007-03-05 09:02:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋