My friend is soooo fat that me and my other friends made a show abot her called "BOOM" what else shouldm we do ??
p.s. SHE DOESNT WEAR A BRA
2007-03-05 08:47:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
your mean,how would you feel if you were fat.I bet they would call you boom.
2007-03-05 08:49:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
I think you have a lot left to learn about compassion. Have you stopped to think about how this "friend" is feeling? Regardless of how fat or skinny she is, or whether or not she wears a bra, she's a human being with feelings too, and I bet she is hurting.
As for what you SHOULD do, you should treat her with the kindness and respect that all people deserve, that you yourself would want.
On the risk of sounding sappy and cliche-y, I think you should read this poem, which is about Nazi Germany.
They came first for the Communists,
and I didn't speak up because I wasn't a Communist.
Then they came for the Jews,
and I didn't speak up because I wasn't a Jew.
Then they came for the trade unionists,
and I didn't speak up because I wasn't a trade unionist.
Then they came for the Catholics,
and I didn't speak up because I was a Protestant.
Then they came for me,
and by that time no one was left to speak up.
I don't mean you and your friends are Nazis, but you should think long and hard about just what kind of group your "other friends" are. If they are willing to be so cruel to an overweight girl, who's to say they won't attack you next, for being too skinny, or having bad skin, or dressing the wrong way or whatever reason they choose to be cruel. If they do, you will be as alone as this girl, maybe even more so because you've been so busy yourself alienating others.
Think about what kind of person you are, and what kind of friend you want to be. Put yourself in her shoes, because you could be there someday.
2007-03-05 18:20:53 · answer #2 · answered by Megan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if this young girl is your friend you more than likely hurt her feelings with the movie. Maybe no one has sat down with her like her mother or a sister and explained that is time to go buy a bra. You know just as well as I do that in school girls are judged everyday and for most girls school is a hurtfull experience. That movie I am sure did not help her self confidence with her weight, looks etc.. Here's a thought take it upon yourself to go shopping with her for bra's or shopping for anything and then browse past the bras. Or have her over for movie night and explain to her while talking that iyou have noticed that it may be time to go buy some bras and if she wants help just to ask and that you would go with her to help her. You doing that will help her with her self confidence in herself and in her friendship with you over the movie. Try it and see and be truthful (but not too truthful to hurt her feelings again!) She may just need a female figure to help her get over this.
2007-03-05 16:55:54 · answer #3 · answered by ldexternh 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
that sounds like your not her real friend and its not up to u of how much she eats and your other friends are losers to make a film about someone thats over wait and u souldnt hang out with them if they do that u should have respect for your friend and you should tell her that it bothers you that she doesnt wear a bra and tell her that she should try not to eat as much in a nice way
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ps- gain some respect for others along with yourself and be mabey shes just bigboned
2007-03-05 16:57:52 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well if you are at school have her to walk around the school talking to her friends to get her moving and some caloris. and u can talk to her and tell her that she needs to were a bra! and ask her to work out with you becuse u are getting borded doing it your self nicely so she wont find it mean. good luck
2007-03-05 16:56:21 · answer #5 · answered by jamie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What Kind of Friend are YOU!
You and your other friends are no good Piece of S____ Well you know what I’m thinking.
How would you feel if it were you?
If all of you were her friends you should try to help her and support her.
I can go on and on but you get the Idea!
RIGHT!
2007-03-05 16:57:34 · answer #6 · answered by Just me! 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It doesn't sound as if she is truly your friend. You wouldn't talk about a real friend like that. What if you get fat someday? People will make fun of you and you can see how it feels.
2007-03-05 16:51:19 · answer #7 · answered by I know, I know!!!! 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
dont do anything else how do you think she feels? and she probably doesnt wear a bra because she cant find 1 in her size lmao!!
2007-03-05 16:52:16 · answer #8 · answered by beach bum 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let's see ......."we" should wear our kevlar vests to school, for when that poor girl goes Columbine and remembers the girls who picked on her.
Learn to duck.
2007-03-05 16:51:48 · answer #9 · answered by kimpetuous 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
with friend like y'all that girl don't need enemies.all of you should be ashamed of yourselves I Bet that her heart is better than all of y'alls that is what really count anyway not the appearance. (what a friends)
2007-03-05 17:01:00 · answer #10 · answered by heavenlli_61 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Stop being friends w/ her. It's embarrassing.
2007-03-05 17:08:43 · answer #11 · answered by RetroBunny69 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋