I really like this guy, and recently (last night) found out he doesn't even like me. I am basically crushed. I've been crying nonstop, my parents figure I'm losing it, and I don't have anyone to talk to about it. What can I do?
2007-03-05 08:46:29 · 9 answers · asked by Christadchick1301 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
GIRL!! As far as I know from what you just wrote now is that he don't know whats he's missing. Cheer up girl!! I know it hurts when the person you like doesn't like you back but..... there's plenty of fishes in the sea!! He ain't the last one. Just take one step at a time and deal with him. Don't cry over some silly guy who's up to no good who didn't like you! YOU'RE MORE THAN THAT!! DON'T EVER MAKE A GUY THINK YOU NOT BETTER THAN YOU'RE ALREADY ARE!!
2007-03-05 08:54:11 · answer #1 · answered by lAVi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your pain is most likely from feelings of rejection. At your young age it is a time of confusion and insecurities about who you are. It is common for a rejection such as this to cause you what seems to an adult an over exaggerated response such as crying non-stop. You must continue to talk to your parents about how you are feeling as right now it is important you get the love and support you need to get through this. If your parents are unable to understand what you are going through then talk to other trusted friends or family members. Just know and believe, this will subside and you will begin to feel better one day. You are still young, you have a whole life ahead of you to experience new challenges. This is just one of the many challenges of life you will experience. One day you will look back and be able to laugh about this. Trust me, I am now a grown woman and have had in my youth similar experiences with heartbreak and rejection as you are currently having today. Time will heal you .Best of luck to you!
2007-03-05 16:59:11 · answer #2 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well last night my best friend was flirting with my crush. I was crushed big time. I thought that my heart was about to explode. There really isn't a way to get over it other then time. But over the time I have learned one thing. U will most likely always get crushed by your crush. They say that the ones u love are the ones that can hurt u most. I really do think that's true.
2007-03-05 16:51:56 · answer #3 · answered by Andrea luvs u...maybe...lol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you forget about him.
dont go break your heart over this guy!
if he doesnt even consider you
being a freind at least..
then id say he has no common sense.
you my dear, you are hurting,
but really, lookat the big picture.
is he really all that great?
no.
you can do WAY better, im sure
and feeling a tad upset.
all i gotta say, is dont worry about him!
go out with the family or some freinds.
enjoy YOUR time!
2007-03-05 16:59:26 · answer #4 · answered by ninjah_jamie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry sweetie to hear that....I know it's tough, but it's not the end of the world. I know it's easy to say..just try to forget about it, but I htink the best is just to hang out with your friends, do happy stuff like sports, movies or talk on the phone. Keep your chin up! You sound young....there's plenty of fishes in the sea!
2007-03-05 16:52:11 · answer #5 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl before him your were fine. and now he doesn't like you is not the end of the world. And you have no ideal why he reject you. sometime guys have their on issue. maybe he is intemedate by you and he think your too good for him. or maybe he have issue his going trough at the moment, and his not ready to be with anyone. believe me when you don't care who want you. and focus on people who want you . life will be much easy for you. Love your self. remember this .... you will find someone who will take your mind off this guy. Don't show him your sad and he got you. except it wasn't meant to be. and you will find closure good luck. I know how you feel right now and no one will say anything for you to understand but yourself. so ask your self a question is this quy worth it for your to loss your mind I Don' t think so. no one worth for to loss your mind. You can be sick anything but lossing your mind is the hardest thing in the world. please take care of yourself and remember 2mor is a new day.
2007-03-05 17:01:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember one thing......... if he doesn't like you, he wouldn't appreciate who you are through & through. Look around for someone who likes who you are. That's really what you deserve. Isn't it? BTW, write in a journal. It always helps if you have noone to talk to right now.
2007-03-05 16:52:17 · answer #7 · answered by lisalikes70scheese 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you. We have all been there sometime. Hang in there it will get better, and if you want to chat with me i will be happy to.
2007-03-05 16:50:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
there are a lot of guys and even cuter
think..... you can meet other guys
2007-03-05 16:51:00 · answer #9 · answered by Talis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋