I had a question about...well...sex. I was wondering what you do. Do you just sit there or dod you do other things. I mean, not like "sex games" or whatver. But what about if you were in "missionary". Do you just sit there waiting for it all to be over or what? I'm just confused. Thanks for your help.
P.S. I am 13, so please don't say I am "too young" to be asking this question. At least I am not out there trying to figure it out firsthand.
2007-03-05 08:27:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not thinking about having it until I am married. I am just curious.
2007-03-05 08:32:25 · update #1
I'm glad and thankful for your decisions. Thank you for not attempting to be a teenage parent. In my thanks, I will CORRECTLY this answer this question without any nagging or nitpicking at a smart, young girl like you.
[Just watch me get voted down. gawddamnit. >_>]
First of all, sex is meant to make babies [obviously], showing affection, and love.
Tricks like 69, moaning, or oral sex are just meant to personalize the "sexual adventure". There is no "right way" of sexual intercourse.
The most basic form of sexual intercourse is indeed missionary. This position can be enhanced if the female moves her vagina along with the male and moans a lot. From my experience [I am so sorry.], it makes things a little faster, and greatly encourages the male to push harder, ending with a [greater] orgasm.
In my personal enjoyment, I prefer missionary with simply loud [but not overacting] moaning. Missionary does not require a female to do anything, but can be used with these enhancements.
2007-03-05 21:33:41 · answer #1 · answered by Pristine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The mother in me wants to just say you are too young to ask. But - the reality is, you are asking and you are going to look for answers elsewhere if you don't get them here. When you are in a loving and caring relationship, (preferably, a married adult relationship) you will learn each others likes and dislikes. The good news is, until it is time, you really won't and don't need to understand exactly how it works. We could describe all day what it is like to drive a car but until you are old enough and actually get behind the wheel, it really wouldn't make any sense! Right? The key thing is you need to be in a real loving and caring adult relationship and no matter how grown up and mature you think you may be, it is nowhere near 13. All will come in time, don't rush this! Babies, diseases, bad reputations and many many headaches come along with it!
2007-03-05 08:42:34 · answer #2 · answered by D Marie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are too young to be asking, but since you are asking, maybe your mother or some other adult female friend can answer these questions for you. Your mother won't be happy that sex is on your mind, but I'll bet that she'd rather you got your information from her than from some guy in the back seat of his car.
If you don't have an adult you can ask about this, there used to be a book called "The Joy of Sex". I don't know if you can still find it in a book store, but it may answer some of your questions. Another book for women was called "Our Bodies, Our Selves".
Do some reading, and forget about testing what you've read until you've had a few more years to gain some maturity that, right now, you may think you have, but you're sorely lacking, no mater what you may think or feel about yourself.
2007-03-05 08:38:58 · answer #3 · answered by Winger 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Miss Thang...
YOU KNOW THAT YOU ARE TOO DAMN YOUNG FOR SEX. First of all it shows by the question you asked.
Let me say this, by the time you are ready to have sex with some one you will have developed the type of relationship that wouldn't make you wonder about what to do with them in bed naturally...
2007-03-05 08:37:54 · answer #4 · answered by Ms Kamm 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes, you are very brave in coming in here and some people will probably give you a hard time (no pun intened) but please use birth control..rubbers and there is no such thing as a dumb question. There are a lot of good books in the Library called the Joy of Sex that are not porno..don't go to porno as this does not represent the true sexual picture..this sex is perverted.
You will graduate to other forms of sex as you grow older and wiser. There is more then one way to skin a cat and you will both learn that in time..so be careful not to get STD or knocked up
2007-03-05 08:32:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
woa....thats to young i am sorry i just had to say it
sweet heart at 13 what if you got pregnant, not only would you be considered a slut, but of course the guy is not going to stay with you or marry you...and to you would ruin your body...remember bathing suit season, you dont wants rolls hanging off you
you would have a hard time going through college cause you would be a mom...and you might ruin your reproductive parts...so just wait...the consequences are way worse then the pleasure you would get
2007-03-05 08:33:18 · answer #6 · answered by ..... 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go and ask your mother or an adult family member that you feel comfortable with. I don't think that a complete stranger can answer this one for you. If your having questions about sex, you need to discuss it with a counselor or family memeber.
2007-03-05 08:33:18 · answer #7 · answered by Justgina 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sex isn't something that is just 'done to you'. If you're doing it properly then it should feel good.
BTW, I'd say you are too young, unless you don't mind being a child and having a child.
2007-03-05 08:32:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
But dear, you are too young, way too young. If I were to give you a step by step you still would not understand what it is and what it means because you are too young for this. Please do not go out to find out before you are ready and old enough. there are predators out there that are just waiting for a fresh chicken like you. Stay young and innocent for as long as you can. Being all grown up migh look great but It ain't as much fun as it looks.
2007-03-05 08:32:13 · answer #9 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 2⤊ 3⤋
I'm still going to say it, you are way to young to be thinking about having sex.
2007-03-05 08:30:32 · answer #10 · answered by dreamangel1102002 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋