we have lived next to each other for many years,
he as kids and so do i they go to the same school - it would get very messy and also i have a partner who has been very good to me , ive been with him for six years
i was speaking to my neighbour for about 15 mins this morning,it was about nothing really but it was so filled with lust and sexual tension, i fear that if we were not interrupted we may have ended up kissing each other.
my neighbour is not even my type but i feel strongly attracted to him- i would never cheat on my partner but what should i do to get rid of my feelings towards my neighbour - tried cold showers they dont work!
every time i see him i just want him to take me and have his wicked way with me- i know its wrong to think like that but i cant seem to control it
there is also the colour issue to deal with im black and he is white - have i got a case of jungle fever?
2007-03-05 08:09:44 · 6 answers · asked by ssmithrxy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dang girl, are you my neighbor?
2007-03-05 08:13:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to cool your jets! If you have a partner why haven't you decided to get married? 6 years is a long time, or maybe he (or she ) isn't what you want. Well if it's a she then I understand..it's complicated. Don't act on your emotions it'll just get you into trouble. I think he probably feels the same way if the tension is there. He might be curious as well. I would not put yourself in a situation where you might act on your emotions. You're right it could get messy.
2007-03-05 08:20:18 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The forbidden fruit is always something people fantasize over! Every time you think like that you need to think about your loved one and how much they mean to you! Then go inside and make sweet passionate love to them instead! BUT dont think about the neighbor think about kinkier ways to rock your spouses world! :D
2007-03-05 08:15:32 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why jeopardize ur long term rel for just a roll inthe hay, oz its going to be just that & no more, from wherei see it.
Maybe u should try ur fantasies out with ur own partner.
try moving house.
2007-03-13 03:33:02 · answer #4 · answered by saltnsaffron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
color shouldnt be an issue if you go ahead w/ your neighbor be very very careful. if your partner is as good a person as you say why would you even consider your neighbor?
2007-03-05 08:18:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like nothing good is going to come from this. you need to some quell these feelings.
2007-03-05 08:14:40 · answer #6 · answered by chip t 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋