What do you men out there think Is the Ideal Wife or companion. and please be serious.
2007-03-05 08:05:53 · 17 answers · asked by ~*Raven*~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The most important thing is that she is a beautiful person on the inside, loving and caring, very intelligent, adventurous, open and honest. A woman who can be tender when she needs to be yet also be aggressive at times. A beautiful face and great body is nice but not required, outer beauty doesn't last forever. Someone who enjoys making love as much as possible, who enjoys wearing lingerie and dressing sexy for her man. Being aggressive in the bedroom is a definate plus at times as is being adventurous in love making.
2007-03-05 08:20:00 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The ideal wife/companion must be independent and happy with her life. Looking for someone to share her already great life with, not trying to fill some hole in her heart or fill a role from her marriage / fantasies.
The ideal wife/companion must be physically fit and care about her appearance. Appearance can attract a man for years and years and make it easier to compromise, forgive, apologize, and break those annoying little stalemates that come up in a relationship.
The ideal wife/companion must have good sense, and be good with money and relationships and have a good head for planning past 2-3 weeks into the future. Huge credit card bills, or a child from a failed relationship, or a complex that everyone is out to get her are warning signs to avoid.
2007-03-05 08:12:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my perfect wife is the wife i have now. she is my third wife and we have been married 21 years now.
when i married my wife she was 33 and i was 40
both of us were Christians but not in a cult church or fanatics in religons
she is Catholic and i am lutheran
she was never married and did not wany any childen as she was a nanny for many years raising new born babies-her speciality
she came from the Philippines to the US in 1985
Louella does not smoke and drink and i quit smoking and drink in moderation (less then once a month) and never go to bars
we have the same interest and are both thrifty as we would rather eat at home then go to restaurants or bars.
we go to the library for books and movie videos
we take two vacations a year...usually to Europe or the Philippines or Japan.
I picked the ideal wife as she lives the same value system that I have and when you marry a good women Filipino in my case you are ahead of most of the womens you find in the U.S.
I have been married twice before and both ladies turned out to be addicted to alcohol or pills and they also had previous issues and i had step children that tryed to run our lives...all in all..this was not a very good way to start a married life with excess baggage from the issues these ladies had with their ex husbands who were either alcoholic or just weak.
You have to marry a strong person to have a chance at a successfull relationship together..women beware of mama boys and men beware of women who like to party drink or do drugs.
have a faith that you both can fall back on when the times go bad
2007-03-05 08:20:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ideal mate is anyone who is willing to work with both your virtues and defects and impulse you to be better for your own sake and that of the relationship. Outer appearances are what physically attract you to anyone but you must go beyond the skin and look for the compassion, patience, tolerance, stamina, good will, endurance and respect that will carry the relationship to a level of total and mutual support.
2007-03-05 08:12:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to have a great personality. She needs to be able to communicate and not hold thingss in. She needs to be able to love me and allow herself to be loved. She has to be honest with me and herself. And most of all she has to be faithful if we are in a relationship.
The physical stuff doesn't matter much. Of course I need/want to be attracted to her but I'm not gonna say I won't date a girl that has this or dosn't have that. As long as I find her attractive in my own way I could care less what anyone else has to say.
2007-03-05 08:11:32 · answer #5 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would have to be my Wife who is kind, understanding, always willing to listen and if a problem rises it doesn't turn into a guessing game. Silent treatment doesn't help a marriage.
2007-03-05 08:12:51 · answer #6 · answered by Williamstown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me it would have to be someone that shares some of my favorite things. I.e, watching sports, playing poker, being active, hanging out......
A real plus would be if they were into threesomes as well!
2007-03-05 08:08:38 · answer #7 · answered by oudie32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone who likes to do things together, whether it is going to a concert, watching football, or going dancing.
2007-03-05 08:11:48 · answer #8 · answered by Tony S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One that is not into looks as much as honesty, faithfulness, and having fun. Also one that gives as much as she gets(as far as effort in a relationship).
2007-03-05 08:09:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost, someone who is honest. Not selfish, cares about me too.
2007-03-05 08:10:42 · answer #10 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋