He don't like communicating and Always want things his way. i admit when we argue I have an attitude problem but he has one to. I wasn't happy. He is trying so hard to get me to change my mind and be with him. I don't know what to do.
2007-03-05 08:00:47 · 13 answers · asked by aiykeon02 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you broke it off, and you mean to stay by that, don't let yourself be swayed.
If you still think it can work and want to give it another shot, it's your call.
Nobody can answer that question for you.
2007-03-05 08:04:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important thing is that you are happy. A relationship is a two way street, it can't always be one persons way. If they think that is the way it should be, no matter if you have been with the person 5 years, 5 months or 5 days I would say leave. As time goes on, it is only going to get harder. If you both love each other and truly want to stay together, try out couples counseling. It has worked for a lot of people.
2007-03-05 16:04:56 · answer #2 · answered by springfallflowers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I some songs remind me of your stiuation. What to burn them on a CD and give it to your boyfriend to and tell him to listen to the message on this CD.
1. Go Your Own Way : Fleetwood Mac
2. The Chain : Fleetwood Mac
3. Magnet and Steel : Walter Egan
4. Don't Go Breaking My Heart : Elton John and someone else too.
5. Two Divided by Love : Tony Burrows fomerly of First Class
6. Come and Get it : Badfinger
7. Life Is A Highway : Rascal Flatts
8. Don't Pull Your Love Out On me Baby : Hamilton / Joe Franks & Reynolds (okay it's kinda oppestie put it still tells the same meaning).
9. Say You Love Me : Fleetwood Mac
10. Miss You : The Rolling Stones
11. Peace Train : Cat Stevens
12. This Love : Maroon 5
13. Tell Her About It : Billy Joel
14. What Do You Want The Girl To Do? : Boz Scaggs
15. You Can't Always Get What You Want : The Rolling Stones
16. Hangin' Out In Smokey Places : The Marshall Tucker Band
If music don't work then listen. If he really loved you, he won't push you to change your mind and resecpt you. Maybe he ain't that speical someone. If you let him go, than they're are others guys out there that you can choose from and by choosing, make sure y'all have something in common. I hope you'll be alright.
2007-03-05 16:35:26 · answer #3 · answered by Robby M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you made a wise decision. If you didn't love him, he wasn't worth it. Especially if you weren't happy. If he is that desperate to get you back, don't give in. Be strong and stand for yourself and yourself only. If he has attitude problems, that's his problem, not yours. I know you probable loved him a lot if you were with him for 5 years. But you weren't happy and no matter how much you like him, if you weren't happy, and if you're not happy, there is nothing to the relationship. My best advise is to just let him go and find someone else that truly loves you for who you are. I hope I helped, I'm young but all my friends say I have the best advise.
Good Luck!!!
2007-03-05 16:12:34 · answer #4 · answered by 4evrAsk8tr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you decide weather or not to take him back go out with some other people and see if your missing anything or could do better. After that if you think it could work out again the give him another chance. But first ask yourself if you are ready or even willing to change and if he can live up to that too. Think about will you be happy and in the long run is this going to be the best decision. Good Luck!
2007-03-05 16:07:48 · answer #5 · answered by Alli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in a relationship for 8 years and i had to break it off. At some point i would like to know where our relationship was going. I waited almost a decade before i finally came to terms that we were just going to be boyfriend and girlfriend. Do you know why your unhappy? That could be it. Mabey you need a change or its time to move to the next step that has been long waiting.
2007-03-05 16:07:17 · answer #6 · answered by nickie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I say that if you weren't happy for 5 years, why go back and be unhappy again when you can find someone else who will make you happy. Keep on going and don't look back. You deserve someone who will understand you and that will communicate with you to make the relationship work. Good Luck. *_*
2007-03-05 16:06:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If after 5 years you deceided it was time to part then you are probably right. After that much time you should "know" the person...its tough breaking up after a long time but it sounds like it was for the best...I'm sorry and good luck
2007-03-05 16:03:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations for not wasting any more time on him! If you're not happy, then get out. Tell him that you're not ready to be friends, and that you don't want to get back together. Ask him to respect you and leave you alone. If he doesn't, consider getting a restraining order.
2007-03-05 16:04:53 · answer #9 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i been dating this gurl for about almost 2 years now but we hav totally diff people she doesnt understand anything and she's selfish n she wants everything her way so the point is the reason im with her is that i love her too much and i cant get over her so if you really love him be with him cause you dont love someone for your happiness you love someone for them because their happiness should be ur happiness rith???
2007-03-05 16:05:07 · answer #10 · answered by XXX 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋