Ok ladies, I have a question for you. Lets say that you were to break up with a guy that you really loved and had been together with for at least a year or so, and then say four months later or so you guys start talking and you see that he has made a lot of changes for himself and it turns out that he really wants the same things in a relationship that you do. If you're still single at the time, and you know that he has made a lot of changes to help himself and the relationship, would you regret it if you decided not to give him another chance and see where it takes you? Just so you know, we didn't have any problems with cheating or abuse or drugs or anything like, so it was nothing astronomical. So I just would really like to know if you would give a guy another chance if he has shown you that he has really made some changes that will benefit both himself and the relationship.
2007-03-05 07:55:12 · 3 answers · asked by frankfurter27 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I saw the person was really making a true effort to change, I woud consider giving the relationship a second chance. Especially if that was part of why you broke up in the first place. I would be skeptical and probably say if things revert back to the way there were before, I'm out for good. If I loved the person still and that person still loved me, I would try.
2007-03-05 08:02:33 · answer #1 · answered by springfallflowers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I really loved him, I wouldn't have broken up with him. And if I broke up with him who I didn't really love, why would I want him back after 4 months, no matter what changes he made? Noone changes that much in 4 months.
2007-03-05 15:59:25 · answer #2 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
Feel free to email me and tell me how you did this magic?
I have tried for 6 years to change my guy and no luck.
2007-03-05 15:58:01 · answer #3 · answered by Mia l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋