So, this guy is loveable and good.
I tend to fall for guys who are on the edge & need mothering.
They are the badboys. Finally I have a good guy but I miss that edge of crazyness. Can we women have it both ways? Responsible guy with a bit of badboy in him, or is it impossible?
2007-03-05 07:47:57 · 7 answers · asked by sugarsweetsweetiepie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know the feeling.
From my experience that badboys are just that, bad. I have wasted time on men who give me a rush, but in the long run can't hang in there for a long term relationship.
Yet, I still believe you can find a guy who is responsible and still be someone you can love and commit too.
Hang in there.......you will find him.
2007-03-05 07:50:25 · answer #1 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you something and this is from a bad guy talking. My girlfriend has the same problem with me where she doesn't know what to do. She does not know if she wants me long term because i seem undependable yet the spark that I give her nobody else can. I think it all depends on your character. Look deep inside and ask yourself truly who you are, what you want?
Yes, you can stay safe with a nice guy for a while but your true character will eventually come out and you will want some spark. People can get hurt. Nice guys can act wild but that is just what it is , an act. When hurt ,nice guys can turn into monsters. Personal freedom is important to bad boys, remember this. You give them this and you have their hearts. Are you willing to do this and take a ride on the wild side or are you willing to play it safe and snug and watch soap operas and live from weekend to weekend. Oh by the way, bad boys are better in bed simply because they are baaaaaad. Peace. Make love not war.
2007-03-05 16:33:45 · answer #2 · answered by serphex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont say how old you are? I think you will outgrow wanting that badboy crazy kind of relationship. You will eventually be happy with the nice guy. You also will be better off because you will be in a secure loving relationship. I had always fell for guy that mad my teeth sweat so to speak. Trust me the comfortable is the best guy for you. Although it is hard. I have been married to the co mfortable guy for eighteen years. I love him to death now. Good luck.
2007-03-05 16:04:55 · answer #3 · answered by janine b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES and I found one!! after 36 years of searching, mind you.... but they do exist. If anything, give up the badboys and spend your time in waiting with the other ones. the bad boys are always bad. they never change, you won't change them, the drama isn't worth it. take what you liked and learned from the bad boys and introduce it into your relationships with the good ones. They appreciate it and you won't be as bored lol!
2007-03-05 15:53:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can have both. if he really is a "good" guy as you say and he loves you then he would be more than happy making a minor change to make you smile. A man doesn't really need and coaxing to take a walk on the wild side. If you are a good girl and want to "take that walk" with him I'm sure he will have no problems.....so you can have you're cake and eat it too...lucky you :-)
2007-03-05 15:52:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes i think you can have both. But its sometimes hard to find. i think if your looking for a life time reationship you should go with the one that makes you feel secure and happy... craziness seems to fade away after a while
2007-03-05 15:54:12 · answer #6 · answered by bbbrowneyes9 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm like you I like the guy with an edge but, I want him to be loving,honest and crazy about me.
WHERE ARE THEY??????
I think they are out there they are just so few and far between it makes it EXTREMELY hard to find them.
2007-03-05 15:53:41 · answer #7 · answered by bjustnape 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋