i posted a question ealier regarding my split up from my bf...i want our realtionship to work out but his scared of bein hurt,but i am totally inlove with him so i dont kno how to prove to him that i aint gona hurt him.
He came over today,passed through my house on his way to work and it was a surprise.Was totally shocked when he foned and told me he was outside.. wasnt expecting to come over after having not seen eacthother since the day we broke up,he told me he passed through to say hy.Was kinda disappointed cz i thot he wanted to patch up things,but do u pipo reading this reckon he;s tryin to get back with me step by step???
2007-03-05 07:38:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's 27 and 'm 19,yeah he's beenhurt in the past and told me he doesnt wana take chances,but he doesnt realise that probably amongest all the gurls he's been with my love is genuinely real. i love this guy,wld do anythin for him
2007-03-05 07:45:36 · update #1
The guy came over to see me again,i asked him what he thot about us again and he says he prefers telllin me on the fon and he's actin like everyhting's kool between us.He gave me a hug and a kiss on the neck.
Also comin to see me 2moro,guys please help,y has he started comin over wen we aitn 2gether anymore? strange init?
2007-03-05 11:10:25 · update #2
There is no magical way to prove that your not gonna dump all over him like his ex did, it's all about time and trust, if he's been hurt in the past he's bound to put up a shield to protect himself, it's human nature, once bitten twice shy!
Sounds as though he's not quite ready to sever all ties completely, if he wanted a clean break he wouldn't have contacted you, take things slowly and dont rush him or yourself into anything, let him know your there for him and dont put any pressure on him, but on the same token dont let him take you for a fool either, if he's not ready for a relationship he needs to be up front and honest and not have you getting your hopes up that your going to be together.
2007-03-05 07:52:33 · answer #1 · answered by The Original Highbury Gal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest i reckon he just doesnt want to leave the relationship in a bad way he wants to keep things ok between you 2....but....if thats the only reason he left(because he doesnt want to be hurt)then you need to sit down with him and say what you just said there.....i want to show you i am totally in love witth you and will not maybe never let you down or hurt you....
i hope you agree..xxx
2007-03-05 07:44:26 · answer #2 · answered by confused at college 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is trying to make you settle down before you have had a life. there are so many other men out there. you should mess them around or they will always do it to you.
he is too old for you huni.
also you seem to have doubts so you must know its not right.
2007-03-05 08:09:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him,sit down & talk to him.Sooner or later he's gonna have to trust a girl-might as well be you-tell him that.
2007-03-05 08:10:31 · answer #4 · answered by munki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is your boyfriend ?? has he been hurt in the past ??
2007-03-05 07:43:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't put any pressure on what's going on here... enjoy the time you have.
2007-03-05 07:49:00 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you just ask him.
2007-03-05 07:43:09 · answer #7 · answered by ra88ie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋