I have a tendency of always dating older girls than me.The current girlfriend is 4 years older than me and the former was 3 years older .Is it an obsession or is it kind of a coincidence.Is there anything wrong with that.
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2007-03-05 07:35:11 · 24 answers · asked by wawesh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no problem with that. older women tend to know more what they like (in bed) and that will help guide you on how to please a woman better. just keep up with them. cause once they hit around 30- we get sex freaks!
2007-03-05 07:39:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend, there is nothing wrong with liking older women. I have dated women from 2 years to 23 years my senior. I once thought something was wrong with me, but it was what I liked at the time, and was not destructive, so I went with it. Now I am into younger women since I am older, but will never forget the experience of dating older women.
Mr. L
2007-03-05 07:50:42 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember when I turned 18, this 14 year old boy asked me out (which I did not accept, but still). I tend to have crushes with younger guys back then. Anyway, I don't think it's an obsession. It has to do with your personality. LIke, I can tell you're more mature and that levels up to older girls, you know. So, older girls dig you huh? Lucky Guy!!!
2007-03-05 07:40:46 · answer #3 · answered by RC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like a problem to me. If the girls you've dated were 3-4 years younger you wouldn't even be posing this question, now would you? You're probably just more mature than most guys your own age. I wouldn't even see a problem if you daed girls 6-7 years older, so don't sweat it. Enjoy!
2007-03-05 07:40:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with that. I've always wondered the same thing because I too love older women. I've always been attracted to older women and it seems that they are more attracted to me than the women my age. The only thing that you have to keep in mind is your differences and make sure that both of you are on the same paeg as far as any differences you may have due to the age. Keep it up man.
2007-03-05 07:41:33 · answer #5 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Older women are hot, experienced a few and they seem to not play games with you and be more genuine about stuff. I've got a mahoosive fancy for older women and have had for a long time. Started at Uni. Been out with a couple and this hasn't stopped me liking them. They just seem, more grown up which they obviously are.
2007-03-05 07:57:53 · answer #6 · answered by Shortman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are 25 and older 5 years or less is meaningless.
if you are close to 30, 6-9 years doesnt matter
Anything more than 10 years gets weird.
A lot of women today look great forever.
Demi Moore looks way better than she did 10 years ago.
2007-03-05 07:43:36 · answer #7 · answered by Spitting Angry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I had a crush on a 17 yrs old when I was 13-14.
dont feel bad about it, theres nothing wrong with it.
wether its an obsession or not doesnt matter man, its NO BIG DEAL.....dont hurt your brain trying to figure it out either, you can never totaly understand yourself, you jsut gotta take it as it comes.
2007-03-05 07:40:32 · answer #8 · answered by Sanwi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's cool theirs nothing wrong with that. I've always liked guys a few year older than me.
2007-03-05 07:42:19 · answer #9 · answered by J Vize 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 years older??? That's not an older girl!!! 20 years older is an older girl!
2007-03-05 07:39:27 · answer #10 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
None at all. My current girl is 5+ yrs older than me. It jsut probably means that you're alot more mature than your age presents. If you see no problem with it, then screw waht everyone else says. Its your choice, enjoy it while you can...
2007-03-05 07:40:09 · answer #11 · answered by jacarig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋