Should i kill myself?

Question

things are going really bad for me, im crying right this moment, as you are reading this. my father jsut punishes me and gets pleasure out of hurting me. people at school dont like me, and i dont like myself either. i feel taht there is no need for me to live, and that if i didnt live, people would be happier. What do you think i should do? i am taking all of your answers to heart, so please, only serious answers.

my parents are also always disappointed in me. i dont want that. my parents hate me.

i cant cry in front of my dad or else he yells at me, and that crap. i dont want to put up w/ it anymore.

if u say no give me a reason. no isnt good enough

Answer 1

You sound very young. Believe me sweety there is nothing worth taking your own life. I know there is someone you can trust to talk to. What about your mom? If that doesn't make you feel comfortable, than how about a teacher at school, or a minister? Look in your local phone directory for a sucide hot line number. Help is out there! I don't know you, but I do know that you have a life worth living. Take some deep breaths when things get sad, and think of one good thing in your life. I know you have something that makes you happy. I remember being young, and sometimes it felt overwhelming, but I got through it and i'm sure you will to. Keep your chin up baby, believe in yourself, and know that the most important person to mean something to is yourself. Email me I'll talk all you want too. [e-mail]

Answer 2

You will call someone and talk with them other than this computer. Call a hotline in your area. Check this computer for a suicide hotline in your area and call it for crying out loud. Now is the time to take hold of your life. Do you think God made you for nothing. Life is not easy. Do you know who Walter Payton is? Did you know that he holds the record for most yards in a career! Do you know his average on every drive was around 4 yards a carry. He didn't give up, he just kept at it. You are here for a reason. You take that away and someone down the road may not benefit from your exsistance. You have no right to undue what God has done. Do the right thing and buck up. You must use your Mom and Dad as bad examples when you have your own family. You are in my prayers.

Answer 3

You were brought into this world for a reason that you are too young to realize yet. I know it's hard right now, but you will look back on all of this heartbreak and know you are stronger because it happened. Ya know how I know this for a fact? I was in your exact situation, and I am smart, witty, sassy, funny, and beautiful--something I had to grow into--I didn't start that way. I wanted to kill myself many times--I still think about it when things go wrong, but I KNOW THAT SUICIDE IS NOT THE ANSWER.

Sometimes, you need to just speak to someone. Talk to your school counselor and just get everything out. that alone will make you feel better. Then, ask the counselor for help with talking to your dad. Maybe the counselor can arrange a meeting at school for you and your dad, and it will be easier for you to talk about exactly what's wrong without being in your house, under his authority.

Right now, you want to die because your ridiculous immature "friends" don't like you--forget them! I know in school, friends mean so much, but they're not you! You are your own person with likes and dislikes, and you need to focus on yourself. Do something that makes you happy all by yourself--watch a movie, eat ice cream, go for a walk and pick flowers--whatever.

Don't give up dear. If it doesn't kill you, it makes you stronger.

Answer 4

everybody had some bad times in life.Life is not fair and you can do nothing about it.Be stronger and start like yourself.How do you expect from someone to like you while you don't respect yourself?Don't let the other people turn you down!Start spending time with people that really care about ya.There must be somebody at your school who likes you and cares about you.Start not givin' a **** about everything-it's not worthin' don't you think?Why should people be happier if you where dead? What have you done?Don't you ever ever think again to kill yourself..I personaly have been through a lot of problems but I don't care what the other people say!You are not gonna hear only good things from other people...so you have to be stronger and start treatin' people the way they treat you.Give a try to defend yourself and after a while you will feel much better

Answer 5

Dnt cry or take life too seriously. **** what other people think. Don't let people hurt you - rebel!. You only live once. Attack life it will kill you anyway. If people don't like you at school , what does it matter? Go to a club or somewhere and find people to talk to. You could always speak to a school counciler or your teacher. Im sure they'll help you out. Talking to someone about like an adult will help and they will give u advice. Do that. Suicide is never the right way - don't be stupid. Talk to someone about your issues.

Gd luck

Answer 6

Look, I know how you feel and things just seem to get worse. I won't be telling you that soon you'll see the light cause you won't. But, ask yourself this question? Does it matter what they think about me or what I think about myself? I know it hurts and I know that I don't know your pain. But I've been and am in that situation. Look online for homeless, hungry people all over the world and I bet they have it worse than you and me. Now you might not like it what I said but I know you are concern in your own problems but just take a deep breath and take it in. You can do it. Killing yourself won't make the pain go away, it'll make you a coward. I tried to do that many times. But I found out something good, and those were my students. They love me and I to them. I know that right now you feel like, **** this is not answering my question. But no one can answer it only you can. There is always one person who you least expect it that needs you very much. Good luck and running away or quitting life won't help.

Answer 7

Killing yourself is not an option. Sometimes no has to be enough. There has to be someone you can talk to at school, another family member. If u believe in God he cares and he does not put on us what we can not handle. Life gets better as long as u believe in yourself. If it make u feel better prove people wrong by fighting to acheive to be the best at what u like to do. Wether it is singing, drawing etc. So please try to get this thought out of your head. I tell u when I was a teenager I attempted this because I thaught no one cared or I was not good enough for my parents, As I got older I have true and dear friends a loving husband, 4 wonderful children that I am hard on because I want them to be the best in life that they can be. It not the end of the world it does get better. Just put your best foot forward. believe me it does get better. just find someone that u can talk to.

Answer 8

listen many of us go through things every day. i do too like crazy. i also sit up cryin nights and it hurts. but wat hepls me through it all is the fact that there alwayz is a good side to everything even if u dont see it now just believe in it. one day youll look back and see how your life is a great success and all these hardships just made u a better person. even if people like your family dont show you that they love you they do. its just so much easier to be mean to a person. maybe your dad had a bad day and you really dont know wats going on in their minds so you cant really judge. i can garuntee that mad people will cry and will hate to lose you. but please dont hurt urself that one day wen u realise u have a reason and a mission in this world will come sooner then u thinkand just stay possitive you sound like a real nice person. by the way you never know whos lookin up to you and is loving ur smile =]

Answer 9

You were given the amazing gift to be able to live. I know that life not's always perfect (and I completely understand you are having a really hard time) but please, I beg you, don't waste it.
Do you have a conextions office at school or some sort of counselling? Go along to that you may think it's stupid or whatever but please give it a go. There are people there that will be more than willing to help you.

I really hope you don't waste your life and keep on solidering on, it may be hard now but things will work out.
Good luck!

Answer 10

Don't take your life no matter how bad it gets. You can get through this and when you do it will make you a much stronger person. Love yourself and hold on cause after it's all through with things only get better.