None of these 7 guys were her long term boyfriends, some where just one night stand, and she also got pregnant from one of them once, and had to have an abortion.... Is this normal? What does this suggest about the girl?
2007-03-05 07:28:26 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, it is not me. But it is somebody very close and important to me. I am worried about her, because guys prob. think of her as a W***E and she doesnt realize that. None of them were real boyfriends, most were just one night stands at random parties, and people saw it too! Even some nasty guys that she doesnt like, but still didnt say no to them! Isn't one pregnancy enough??
2007-03-05 08:16:18 · update #1
Don't judge others. You don't know what type of life this girl had, or how she was raised. If she is your friend, all you can do is try to support her as a friend.
2007-03-13 05:15:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to the first answer:
guys can be more careless because they're not the ones who are gonna have to go through pregnancy or abortion. I think those two factors are gonna have a greater impact on the girl.
I would think this girl is not being careful. if she already got pregnant once, she should also consider the fact that she could have got an STD from that one time as well. hopefully she is learning from her mistakes... also, she should slow down. some might say she has low self-esteem.
but in any case, she needs to be safe!
2007-03-05 15:37:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you talking about yourself or just trying to run somone else down?! In either event, it sounds like this girl is someone that has probably been 'played' by about seven different guys. It also sounds like a girl that has put herself at high risk for lots of sexually transmitted diseases...including those that there cannot be cured. Hopefully, this same girl now realizes the 'error of her ways' and will be more careful in her selection of sexual partners. And unfortunately, this is probably more 'normal' than one would think. I don't judge someone unless I've walked in their shoes b/c you just never know.
2007-03-05 15:34:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means she's being normal and exploring her sexuality. Some people are mature enough at that age, and some people aren't. As long as she's being safe, then she's fine. Better to want to do it now rather than after you've been married for a few years, you know?
Unless, of course, she was sexually abused earlier in her life. Often times, victims of sexual abuse become sexually active with too many partners because they have unresolved issues.
2007-03-05 15:35:25 · answer #4 · answered by SChi25 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't want to be with her. I couldn't honestly respect a girl who has no respect for herself, her unborn child or her future partners.
If she doesn't protect herself from STDs, then it not only means she doesn't care about herself, but also that she doesn't care if she spreads the disease.
The abortion thing really turns me off. I feel that abortion should be limited to high-risk or health related pregnancies. Abortion is not birth control for people too careless to protect themselves. Its not the baby's fault you sleep around...
2007-03-13 14:11:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
7 is way too much. If it hasn't already she will start to develop a reputation for sleeping around and being easy. She needs to slow it down and think more on her life and where does she see herself 5 to 10 years from now. There are diseases out there that has no cure and a condom doesn't prevent them.
2007-03-05 15:35:13 · answer #6 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Let your friend know that guys won't respect her until she respects herself. Let her know that she doesn't have to sleep around to be liked by guys. Also tell her never to go out alone and don't drink. You seem like a good friend. Maybe you should hang out with her more so she doesn't do these types of things anymore. Good luck.
2007-03-13 02:03:21 · answer #7 · answered by bluegirl5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it could mean two things: she may seek the WRONG attention from males if her father wasnt involved/around. Or she may mimic what she sees from her friends or female family members. I just hope she doesnt get an STD she cant cure.
2007-03-05 15:49:19 · answer #8 · answered by Mass Appeal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means she craves attention from men, possibly because of a lack of attention from a father figure or because of physical abuse by a male. This kind of behavior will have mental and physical consequences (low self esteem and STD / pregancy) for years to come.
2007-03-05 15:33:00 · answer #9 · answered by jonmm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a girl that likes giving it to everyone but don't you worry yourself about it as it will get to the stage that she will not be able to do it as she will pick up STD. It is not normal but there is more than her that does it
2007-03-05 15:35:46 · answer #10 · answered by kittiebann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋