Ok there is this guy. I really like him. Should i ask him out. There is a school dance coming out, but i always get hurt bye boys. They would hit me and call me names. See at the time i had glasses short hair big banes. Now i have contacts, no bangs, long wavy brown hair and i am about 5 inches taller. So i have changed. I still am worried that i will get hurt. What should i do.
2007-03-05 07:16:31 · 11 answers · asked by angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How long are we talking about since you grew taller and got contacts? It were are talking about two years, you might see that the boys will act differently, especially if you grew boobs. Ask. What the worst that can happen? He'll say no?
2007-03-05 07:28:25 · answer #1 · answered by t1riel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the guy. (You should provide more background info. next time.)
If you're friends, go ahead and ask.
If you're not friends & he doesn't know you exist, then you have to consider:
If he's really good-looking, outgoing, popular, or "in-demand",... you might want to pass if he doesn't know you exist. You can do a "pass by", and see if he takes notice of you, and how he looks at you.
If he's more the shy, quiet, or less assuming type with fewer friends, also do a couple "pass-bys," with a couple "Hi"s & smiles (to let him know you exist, because you could potentially freak him out if you suddenly popped the question), ... and then ask him out.
If he's somewhere in the middle between these two, well, it could go either way.
You'll have to "read" the guy (how he looks at you, how he looks at other girls and what types of girls, check out how he treats other people in general, what kind of friends he has, etc.) & use your 6th sense.
Good luck! And the best of love -
2007-03-05 15:29:55 · answer #2 · answered by sky2evan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in this world a little rain will fall.... what ya do is pick yourself up brush yourself off and continue on. if you want to ask this boy out then do it. you are in control of your feelings. if a guy manages to hurt your feelings by the end of the dance move forward and dont look back. dont base your new friends on actions of friends from the past. You are the captain of your ship and you no whats best for you.....
2007-03-05 15:26:57 · answer #3 · answered by Lorie M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't shelter yourself from the pain you had long ago. Yes, you'll have that bit of a wall up, but if you don't take a chance, you'll never find the one that's right for you. ASK HIM TO THE DANCE!!! Nobody says you have to date the guy if he's a loser. Get to know these guys before getting attached (if that's possible)
2007-03-05 15:21:20 · answer #4 · answered by kebbs32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, is this guy giving good vibes back, like he likes you, too? If he is, I say go for it! If you're unsure, just grab some girl friends and have a girls' night at the dance. That way, you're guaranteed to have fun!
2007-03-05 15:19:35 · answer #5 · answered by Duckie314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely ask. Otherwise you are just letting past experiences hold you back in life and that is not something that you want to get in the habit of doing.
2007-03-05 15:20:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask, he will probably say yes and you will be happy for the school dance
2007-03-05 15:20:26 · answer #7 · answered by liljon365 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask. Nothing ventured, nothing gained as the saying goes.
2007-03-05 15:18:57 · answer #8 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your friends ask him but make sure your friends will have your back
2007-03-05 15:20:17 · answer #9 · answered by t~kat_6_6_6 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should defiantly ask him. and just be yourself, if they're mean to you they're prolly just jerks.
2007-03-05 15:21:03 · answer #10 · answered by soccer_chick8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋