We have hi-hello'ed a few times and today our talk got to golfing, and he said he'd like to invite me for golf lessons. If he follows through, should I accept? Or decline?
2007-03-05 07:10:10 · 15 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find out first what his status is. You don't want to be the girl he uses to cheat on his gf/wife.
2007-03-05 07:12:49 · answer #1 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just find out if he's married/ dating first. You work together, so it shouldn't be too hard. Decide how you feel about him. How badly do you want to learn to play golf or is it just an excuse to spend time together. Once you know those answers then you can determine if you should/ want to, and under what conditions. Also, if there's potential there relationship wise, is there any issues with work that might cause problems? If it turns ugly what might be the side effects?
2007-03-05 16:04:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Golf lessons are before during and after. Before - where do you meet? If he picks you up, you are in his car and under his control. If you meet at Dennys, he may not have wanted you to see that his home had toys on the driveway and a SUV decorated with footbal team slogans.
During - is it private lessons where he has to put his arms around you to show you how to swing or is it out in the open on a golf course. Is it a foursome or a twosome?
After - is it back to my place, 14 gin and tonics at the clubhouse THEN back to the pad?
If you are strong willed and independent, go control the situation the way YOU want it to turn out. Find which club your are going to, carry a cell phone, have numbers of 3 taxi companies, taxi fare home, tell someone where you are going, call your friend Amy with his licence plate number.
Me? I use the voters list, find out where they live, look them up in the phone book, get a friend to do the old "Hello, can I speak to Mommy" wrong number trick, drive by the home.
Aint nuthin foolproof. Just a few ways you can cut down on the risk.
2007-03-05 15:27:58 · answer #3 · answered by jinoturistica 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are looking way to much into this. He invited you for a golf lesson. Either you want to know how to play golf or you don't. If it's a date you are looking for, mention restaurants or clubs to discuss. My point is, if you wanted to know the guys personal information, you should have asked what you wanted to know. Things would be so much easier if we just asked what we wanted to know. Thank you and good luck.
2007-03-05 15:15:45 · answer #4 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as I've golfed, I've never seen anyone "getting it on" at the driving range. This sounds like a very safe, innocuous activity that he is asking you to share with him. If you're uncomfortable about how much you know about his situation, ASK! There's nothing wrong with ASKING!
Don't be disappointed if he's only seeking friendship and wanting to share an enjoyable past time with you. There's a famous quote: "Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar!"
2007-03-13 14:49:48 · answer #5 · answered by mrvid2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are going for the golf lessons, I would not even be concerned if he is married or not, that is his private business...if you like him and wish to hanky panky, then you should consider finding out first.
Now that you know, think of what you want and make a decision.
2007-03-13 14:40:44 · answer #6 · answered by Ariana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would accept especially if you want to learn golf. He probably went on answers and asked how to ask you out without making a fool out of himself. Someone must have suggested that he offer to teach you golf! :) Go for it!
2007-03-05 15:14:10 · answer #7 · answered by A B 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you REALLY want to learn golf don't...do you understand that he might have to be behind you to show you how to swing...i just wouldn't go somewhere one on one with a co-worker...(you don't know if he runs his mouth (even if nothing were to happen))...Just say no so you don't led him on.
2007-03-05 15:19:06 · answer #8 · answered by fatiegurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would, but only because I'd like to learn how to play golf, and it's easier to do this with someone you know.
2007-03-05 15:13:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to get some info on him and if every thing checks out then go for that golf lesson.
2007-03-05 15:15:28 · answer #10 · answered by Nocurfew313 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only if you are interested in golf...and only after you are clear on his intentions, your wants, and his status.
2007-03-13 11:13:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋