Ok, so a group of us went out on Saturday night clubbing and within this group there is a girl that all of the lads in the group find attractive. There are 3 lads in the group (myself included) the other 2 have girlfriends though. One of the other lads called me over to tell me this girl (let's call her Katie) liked me (his girlfriend asked her). at first I thought he was having me on and didn't take it seriously, then one of the girls said the same thing.
We got talking for a bit but I was slightly drunk and decided to see if they were right so I kissed her (not an ideal 1st kiss) but she responded so thought this was OK. I got her number, then one of the couples started arguing so we went home. Katie with the girls and me with the lads (keeping to our friend loyalties). I guess she is waiting for me to contact her 1st, so how long? My mate mentioned the 3day rule which means tomorrow. Only I'm hoping I didnt intimidate her with the fairly unromantic 1st kiss, what do you guys think?
2007-03-05 07:09:45 · 6 answers · asked by mikester_tyson 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks. I'm plenty confident enough thats not the problem, its the way things happened, she is really shy and I'm not lol, when I kind of dived on her to kiss her that may have scared her a bit and blown my chance is what I'm worried about. As we are i the same social circle I don't want to mess things up and make it awkward everytime we see each other afterwards
2007-03-05 07:20:57 · update #1
K.I.S.S. - Keep It Small & Simple. Contact her tomorrow and keep it cool. Try to start things off slowly. If ur really interested in her, definitly contact her tomorow. Dont let it go any longer because if she's really interested in you she will have wanted you to contact her, if not that night - the next day.. Grab hold of your confidence and go for gold... hope this helps..
2007-03-05 07:17:05 · answer #1 · answered by Point 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were drinking and having fun she is probably happy at the fact you kissed her not how good it was.. I would call her tonight and set up something for week maybe coffee on Wednesday and then go out again this weekend together.. Meeting in the middle of the week gives you both some alone time to really get to know each other and if things go well then this weekend should be awesome and if after talking your not into her then you have the weekend to go clubbing again..LMAO..Have fun
2007-03-05 07:18:31 · answer #2 · answered by BLONDE BEAUTY 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go ahead and just call her now...the "rules" are more of a guideline to keep you from looking desperate....as a girl I can say that if I gave you my number it is ok to call me.so long as when you call you do not act like a moron. This will also protect you from giving some other guy a chance of catching her eye.
2007-03-05 07:20:51 · answer #3 · answered by Erinyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I do think 3 days is plenty to wait..Since she gave you her number she obviously didn't mind the kiss,so I'd say you have s good shot at another date & a better kiss..=)
2007-03-05 07:15:24 · answer #4 · answered by *toona* 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have not got any thought why he hasn't contacted to you. that's an entire array of issues. a sequence of insanely unlucky activities could have befell. A lost telephone/no credit, he forgot, he's status you up... could you quite discover out, or sit down there all evening dropping time waiting? call him.
2016-10-02 10:35:07 · answer #5 · answered by trapani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a girl, the 3day rule applies. this gives both the guy and grl to see if they really want to get to know the person. gives both time to think. good luck ;p
2007-03-05 07:16:34 · answer #6 · answered by kc321 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋