"release" himself on me and then lick it off!!! WTF!?! He e-mailed me pics too!! What should I tell him. Little bit of info for ya, I am 27 yrs. old and have grown up around my fathers friends....like they're my uncles. I don't think I will ever look at him the same! Why am I not puking right now....gross!
2007-03-05 06:55:33 · 26 answers · asked by TJ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to set him straight and quickly. Tell him you see him as more like a father or uncle and not in any sexual way at all. Tell him that this doesn't excite you and your are NOT interested. And tell him if he doesn't leave you alone right now you will tell his wife and daughter. (not that you really would)
2007-03-05 06:59:16 · answer #1 · answered by tersey562 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So is there something that may have occurred between you and he to make him think that it was alright to make this generous offer to you? Most men...if they're gentlemen....express their desires of this nature to young ladies. Whether they have grown up around them or not. Perhaps you should look back on the past contact you may have had with him. There may be something there to lead him to believe that this little fantasy would have been warmly accepted.
If there wasn't....and circumstances are rare in cases like this...than I'd strongly suggest you avoid this fellow at all costs and by all means do not put yourself in a situation where you'd be alone with him.
2007-03-05 15:02:58 · answer #2 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bleh. Sucks to think about having to tell your father about this; I'd lean towards that, though, just because I think he'd appreciate it if he had even just a general idea that this friend of his was, well, no friend of his.
As for what to tell buddy-boy...you could always let him know that that's just not your cup of tea, but you've got a whole crowd of friends and acquaintances on Yahoo Answers who have all volunteered to forward his email around the 'net to make sure it gets the greatest possible exposure, since you'd like to help him find someone who shares his interests. Or would he rather retract his request, hmm?
2007-03-05 18:57:33 · answer #3 · answered by tantrickster 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its interesting that you are not puking ... I think you might be interested on some level ... sure, your immediate reaction is to be revolted and that is understandable but he obviously sensed something in you ... maybe he thought you would be into him the way he is you - maybe you are? I wouldn't rush off and do anything quite yet ... let the thoughts simmer with you for a bit and figure out what you really feel.
2007-03-05 15:05:50 · answer #4 · answered by hidehohum 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This man is acting out his fantasys on you because for some reason he dosent think either a,you will tell your dad or b,your dad wont believe you.Print off his email and post it all round the house when he comes to visit,with a little note underneath cc to local police.Then tell your mum!!!!!
2007-03-05 15:04:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though your 27 and an adult, You should talk to your dad about this. he probably wouldn't want to be friends with any one who would do this to his daughter. This is sick and unnatural behavior, especially if you think of him as an uncle. He should be looking at you as a niece not a conquest.
2007-03-05 15:02:22 · answer #6 · answered by Kimmie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
e-mail him back and tell him just to lick off his hands or just let some guy "release" himself in his mouth to save him some time and then tell your dad that his friend is a creep and show him the e-mail.
2007-03-05 15:00:58 · answer #7 · answered by Just D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deffinately tell your father what he has asked and show him the pics he sent. You can also report it to the police, I believe they will consider this as indecent exposure since you did not ask for the photos. No matter what you do, what he asked you is wrong and he needs to be aware of that.
2007-03-05 15:03:15 · answer #8 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah that's the craziest thng that I've ever heard of in my life. Releasing himself on you is crazy enough but to lick it up....nothing else to be said about that.
2007-03-05 15:02:33 · answer #9 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, that's really really gross!!! E-mail him back and say you're not interested and tell your father about it!! That's so sick though for real... ughhh.
Or just go to the police about it?
⥠Christina
2007-03-05 15:04:28 · answer #10 · answered by Christina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋