relationship?

Question

Ok ladies, I have a question for you. Lets say that you were to break up with a guy that you really loved and had been together with for at least a year or so, and then say four months later or so you guys start talking and you see that he has made a lot of changes for himself and it turns that he really wants the same things in a relationship that you do. If you're still single at the time, and you know that he has made a lot of changes to help himself and the relationship, would you regret it if you decided not to give him another chance and see where it takes you? Just so you know, we didn't have any problems with cheating or abuse or drugs or anything like, so it was nothing astronomical. So I just would really like to know if you would give a guy another chance if he has shown you that he has really made some changes that will benefit both himself and the relationship.

Answer 1

Well it all depends are they really changed or just sayign they are to get you back??? But 9 out of 10 times for me I would give it a go if I truely loved the person

Answer 2

When I was younger I would say that I would have given a guy a second chance if I saw changes in him that were positive, however now that I am older I would say forget it and move on and find someone that doesn't have to change to suit your needs. Remember, there was a reason the two of you broke up in the first place and that it is always in the back of your mind no matter what the changes are. There are too many people out there to choose from why waste your time with someone that didn't work the 1st time around. I hope that helps you out! Good luck!

Answer 3

I would say yes. If I saw that he had made all these changes and we were seeing eye to eye and wanted the same things, yes. I strongly believe in second chances.

Answer 4

From what your saying I would probably give you a second chance...if you made me happy thats all that matters

Answer 5

i would give him another chance
if you really love him you'll do the same