I'm just curious what some of you might say in this situation. If a couple of times that you made plans with a girl, you changed the plans at the last minute... She tell you that you need to stick to the plans becuase it makes it seem like she can't trust what you say.
2007-03-05 06:28:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I should have given more details...
On Saturday he was supposed to pick me up, and when I stopped by his job to see him he told me he was going to meet his friends first and then come and get me around 11:00. Didn't happen, so he asked me if I would just meet him at the club, which I did to be nice, but he wasn't there until like 12:30.
Sunday, we were supposed to do something of my choosing and then he called me and said he was going to do a few things after work but call me at 8. He didn't call, and when I finally talked to him he was in the bar.
When I told him that it seemed he couldn't keep his word he seem surprised, and basically said that he makes plans 'in the moment' sometimes. I don't think this is acceptable. I wasn't angry when I talke to him but I let him know I was disappointed. I have only been dating him about 1 month but I really like him and I am not sure if I handled it in a way that won't completely run him off.
2007-03-05 06:47:08 · update #1
Sounds like a jerk. What did he do instead of spending time with you? I would say you are not one of his top priorities. I wouldn't trust him.
2007-03-05 06:33:08 · answer #1 · answered by his.grace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are times when things do come up in people's lives. If I asked a girl out and she kept missing the plans that were mad then I would just move on because it would seem to me that she is not interested. There is no need for me to waste her time or mine and if she was not feeling me I would rather her tell me so instead of leading me on/ I hope this helped. Good luck
2007-03-05 14:38:24 · answer #2 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does trust have to do with anyone changing a plan at the last minute? Did he cancel the date or merely decide you'd be doing something different? You always have a choice, if you liked the original plan then hold him to it, otherwise cancel the date or go with the flow.
2007-03-05 14:35:14 · answer #3 · answered by Tim H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends, did he change the plans or cancel them? if he just changed the plans your being a paranoid bit.ch to call him on it for trust reasons. if he just cancelled them i can understand how you'd be mad about it but it's still not really a trust isssue its a want issue, he doesn't want it enough and therefore isn't worth the time and effort
2007-03-05 14:34:08 · answer #4 · answered by nightmare_gorilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guy said U R RIGHT!!!
2007-03-05 14:31:10 · answer #5 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
amen to that. he is not to be trusted.
2007-03-05 14:32:09 · answer #6 · answered by lalanoesbest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋