i work with this guy..hes 26..most attractive guy ever...wonderful personality....im head over heels for him...he has a gf who is 18..well im 17...she looks like me, has the same name as me, and they have been together for like 6 months almost...but will there ever be a chance of him and me.? when were at work, we can talk for like 3 hours nonstop...im always happy when im around him....i care about him so much..if he was to die, i would too.....what is the possibility of his relationship with his gf lasting and them getin married?? i just wanna c him happy but i wish he could be with me...
2007-03-05 06:27:18 · 6 answers · asked by Punk Rock Princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have had such a hard time at school since i met him bc none of the other guys appeal to me...the only guy i want is him...and i keep trying 2 let him go..until the next time i see him at work... :(
2007-03-05 06:34:35 · update #1
....this summer we almost went out but my parents were being stupid and wouldnt let me go when he asked me to the movies..then in sept he hooked up with this other girl and it devastated me...i just feel like he and i are the perfect match and i couldnt stand to lose him
2007-03-05 06:41:13 · update #2
ok, just a few points you need to understand:
1. If he had sex with you it is RAPE. You are a minor and he could go to prison, even for kissing you! If your parents wanted to press charges for sexual harrassment or assault, they could. Do you really want the guy you love to go to jail over you?
2. A relationship with ANYONE at work results in being fired by many companies. You didn't say where you work and it may not be policy there, but at every job I've worked for it is against policy to date or have sex with any co-workers. Do you want to lose your job or cause him to lose his?
3. no offense, but usually when a guy that's almost thirty is dating teenagers, its a clear sign that he can't get women his own age b/c they are wise enough not to fall for his looks. Apparently, he's not the great catch he appears to be.
4. If a guy is quick to leave his g/f for another girl (you!), he'll be quick to leave you when something younger or cuter comes along. Same with flirting---if he flirts with you while he's with her, he'll flirt with someone else while he's with you.
Honey, you seem like a sweet girl. I don't want you to go through the pain and trouble he could put you through. Just continue being his friend and leave it at that. Someday your prince will come.
2007-03-13 06:51:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just infatuated with him. What would be the point of breaking them up? If a guy is quick to leave his girlfriend for you, he'll be quick to leave you for someone else.
You are still very young and inexperienced. Once you go to college and play the field there, you'll be over this guy in a heartbeat.
In the meantime, perhaps it would be wise for you to get another job and quit obsessing.
Good luck!
2007-03-13 03:19:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my gosh.....this was my EXACT dilimma about 2 months ago......listen, i know how you feel. you just want to be around him, watch him smile and laugh...but let me tell you something. you will never truly get every part of him that you are desiring to have. obviously they are going pretty strong, and he cares for her......what makes you think that if yall started dating, he wouldn't go and flirt with another girl like he does you??? people tried and tried and tried and tried to tell me that it wasn't going to work, but i never listened. now, i'm alone, with a broken heart, and he is still with her. you never ever want to be the dessert-shoot for the main course......its the hardest lesson in the world to learn, but let him go. God never closes one door without opening another....trust that he will find someone perfect for you-no matter how great this guy is. good luck dear-i'm praying for you
2007-03-05 06:39:44 · answer #3 · answered by ambitious_highschooler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just one girls opinion but why is a guy that's closer to THIRTY hookin up with girls in their teens. Who cares how hot he is there must be a problem with this guy.Forget about him. ewww i get the heebeegeebee's just thinkin about if my 17 yr. old daughter ever came home and send she had it bad for a guy that age.
2007-03-13 04:31:24 · answer #4 · answered by tarakootenay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before they get to serious you should open up the the guy. Tell him how you feel. You never know he may feel the same about you and just can't get the nerve to talk to you about it.
2007-03-05 06:34:55 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him if anything happens between him and his g/f.. he can always come talk to you anytime m day or nite, and leave the window open for him
2007-03-13 02:13:47 · answer #6 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋