I am a 30 yr old man.I stay in Calcutta,West Bengal.I am a ordinary science graduate & presently unemployed.My father is 80 yrs old & is a retired telecom employee.My mother is a housewife.I am from my childhood a shy introvert person & till date i have very few friends.I know that's strange but presently i have no friends.In my locality the local club controlled by CPI(M) party has mobilized everyone so that wherever i go out someone or the other is calling me a behen****,pagal(mad person) i dont know why...i have a sister who is married for last 10 yrs & till date has no children.
Now i depend on them bcz her husband had given me a salesjob in the company where he was GM.i worked there for 1 &1/2 yrs.But i left the job bcz i felt very insecure as they were harassing me when my brother-in-law joined a new company.They started saying slangs very dirty way in front of senior managers which they used to do even when my brother-in-law was there. Then i begged for a job in his new firm.He offered me a clerical job with 15k salary in mumbai.I went there but i found uncomfortable there bcz of high cost of living & other reasons & i came back.But again last month(6 mths after i came back)i went to sister's house again in mumbai after they offered me again the same job after much request.But agai i came back bcz i felt demoralized & insulted by the fact that i am so much dependent on my brother-in-law.Now b4 i went to mumbai,recently a girl's mother came with a marriageproposal to my mother.but bcz i am unemployed my parents refused to the proposal.Now i feel that they r planning to marry that girl to my sister's husband bcz he need a son.Also they are telling me to get out of their house & beg in the street.I dont know who to seek help from..plz someone help me
2007-03-05 06:26:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I feel my sister & brother-in-law are both evil persons in the guise of honest persons.
Also i feel my parents particularly my mother is a abusing person.
Also the locality & city i live in (calcutta)doesnot suit me but i have no option as i am unemployed can i get any free legal counselling in calcutta?
2007-03-05 06:33:13 · update #1
FIRSTLY, IF U ALL IDIOTS CANT REPLY PROPERLY DONT MEDDLE WITH UR DIRTY NOSE INTO MY QUESTIONS.
I DONT WANT ADVICE FROM SILLY ASSHOLES LIKE U ALL WHO HAVE NO OTHER JOB THAN TO COME TO YAHOO ANSWERS.
2NDLY,IS IT REALLY THAT EASY TO GET A JOB IN BPO OR SALES /MARKETING?THEN WHY DONT U OPEN UP A CONSULTANCY?
MUMBAI IS FIT FOR LIVING? I DONT THINK SO...ITS ONLY THE FINANCIAL CAPITAL OF INDIA & NOT USA/CANADA/UK OR ANY DEVELOPED NATION.IT'S WORSE THAN EVEN CALCUTTA,ONE OF THE WORST CITIES IN THE WORLD.
I AM AN EDUCATED PERSON & TRY TO ANSWER PROPERLY DIRTY PRICKS
I ALSO HAVE A ID IN LEVEL 7
SO DONT TRY THESE ...THAT'S A WARNING!!!
2007-03-06 14:34:14 · update #2
FORGIVE THEM .THEY DONT KNOW WHAT THEY ARE DOING & SAYING.
THIS ALSO APPLIES TO ALL THOSE WHO ARE REPLYING TO YOUR QUESTION IN THIS MANNER.
2007-03-06 14:45:12 · answer #1 · answered by ravi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The world has changed now. There were times when one has to depend on the government for Jobs. But now in today's modern world there are so many jobs right from BPO's to Marketing, Insurance etc. So stop complaining about others. Try for a new job and get better in your life.
2007-03-05 19:58:30 · answer #2 · answered by Stunner_cool 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Your parents are right. You are not responsible enough to take care of yourself. How can you take care of your lady? They made the right decision by refusing for the marraige.
You found living cost too high in Mumbai. You earned a handsome salary of 15K. Well, I'm from mumbai and I know people you maintain their expenses even after earnign a meagre figure of 5K. How come, you couldn't find 15K unaffordable? Most of the mumbaikars would die for such a job. (What do you say mumbaikars?)
And finally you blame your sis, your parents, and your brother in law. You are just another peice of a shameless freak. What do you expect? Everyone should pay tributes to your achievements? They should respect you for what you have done in your life? You are 30, still unemployed, still unclear about your career, and you want people around you to adore you. What for? your brother in law help you out thre times with your career. Instead of thanking him for it, you call him an evil person in disguise.
Frankly speaking, you are the one who needs treatment. you were the one who was never able to earn respect for himself. And you blame the people around you for that. Sorry for being rude, but that's the fact. Had you grabbed your opportunities wisely, you wouldn't have landed up in such conditions. All that you are facing is because of few wrong choices that you made in your life. Now stop acting like an idiot and get going.
All the best...
:-)
2007-03-06 06:05:07 · answer #3 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋
heres what you should do. There are jobs everywhere so get a small one if you have to while you look for a big one. 2. stop going to your sister, its never going to work so dont do it. 3. try to get a job out of town. buy a cheap apratment. 4. you have to have some kind of hobby. join a group of some kind. 5. remember, it doesnt matter if you like the job you get, your begging for one so dont picky. also it doesnt matter if your apartment is four star when you advance in life, move.
2007-03-05 07:15:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
I reported this for chatting and personal communication and for not being a question or an answer. Do you really think the rest of the world wants to hear your entire, pathetic life story?
2007-03-05 06:36:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋