what does it mean?

Question

My boyfriend of 3 1/2 years broke up with me this weekend. He said it was b/c all of the little things i did that made him mad absolutely made him not want to be with sometimes. He said he wants to get back together,but he's afraid that he'll start getting mad over the little things again. He still calls me and texts me. He also stilll gives me hugs and kisses when we see each other too. At first he said he just needed some time to himself and he's tired of everbody hassling him. I told him i would give him his space. then he gets back w/ me and then he breaks up with me again. I'm totally confused and i think he is too. He said he doesn't really know what he wants, but he will always love me. Is this relationship doomed? we are each other's first love by the way. Neither of us wanted to go through with the breakup but we also feel we need our space from each other for a while. is there a chance for us since we still have all of these strong feelings for each other?

Answer 1

Well, start from the beginning,what made you leave the relationship.If you go back to relationship what will be different.
No one changes,what you see is what you get.I would be looking at what makes me happy.You are you.don't change for someones Else's approval.Let him pursue you. you get busy
having fun.Go new places meet new people,if it's meant to be
it'll work out or fade away.

Answer 2

If he gets mad about little things and has done nothing to deal with himself then you're prolonging a break up. I guy that gets mad over stupid little things doesn't accept you for you. He wants you to change, he loves who he wants you to be, not unnecessarily who you are. You need to find someone who can accept you for who you are, all of you.