my ex friend likes the same guy as me. what do i do?? i don't want to fight over him with her, because she's one fat *****. i need some professional help, here asap!!
2007-03-05 06:23:05 · 16 answers · asked by Krista Nielsen 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you need to leave this guy alone. Find a different guy. If your friendship meant anything to you at one point then you will not date someone that your friend is interested in....In addition, the circle between you, your ex-friend and you are too close in proximity...I would hate for this guy to break up with you and for him to date your friend later...I've seen this one too many times. Just leave it alone.
Good Luck.
2007-03-05 06:30:16 · answer #1 · answered by chyna0069 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope this guy is not the reason why you and your friend don't talk anymore, because no guy is worth loosing a friend over.
Well i guess if you both like him then its up to him to decide but you should never give a guy the power to decide over two girls so why don't you just ask him out and see what happens.
If he says no then you can move on and if he says yes then its obvious he likes you more than your friend so whats the problem.
Good luck xxx
2007-03-05 14:31:20 · answer #2 · answered by anastacia500 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it,as long as you not mates no more,dont wana be her mate and dont care bout her. However if you care bout her and wana make friends again then i would find someone else,there are lots of men out there...then again if she knows you like this guy aswell and is trying it on with him she obvously aint worth p***ing on if she was fire,so in this situation i would say GO GET YOUR MAN,chances are if she really is "one fat *****" he'll choose you!!!!!!! good luck with this whatever you choose to do!!!!!!!!!!xx
2007-03-09 12:19:36 · answer #3 · answered by kim h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not that u need to fight over him...
let him know what u felt about him...dun care about the ex' friend of urs...she doesnt mean anything if the guy likes you...
he will make the final choice after all rite?
2007-03-05 14:30:58 · answer #4 · answered by unknown (male) 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Geez, move on! Life is too short for this kind of drama. Unless this guy is the second coming of Christ, there will always be another hunky man around the next corner.
2007-03-05 14:30:38 · answer #5 · answered by Tim H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why even ask this question...she is your ex friend...so forget all the other rules...and FLIRT A LOT...the guy will be the on deciding in the end!
2007-03-05 14:29:29 · answer #6 · answered by hottiewatchout 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's your EX friend? Go for it. The guy will be the one making the final decision anyhow.
2007-03-05 14:26:59 · answer #7 · answered by AnastasiaBeaverhousen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually, it's not up to you, or your fat friend. It's up to the guy. Which one of you does he like? Doesn't sound like it's you, girlfriend.
2007-03-05 14:28:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you said it yourself-she's your ex friend, go for it sweetie-if this guys worth it, put up a good fight-don't let the fat ***** win.
2007-03-05 14:29:28 · answer #9 · answered by rosebud06 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i've been in this situation before but as you said it is your ex-friend you should go get in there! i no it sounds harsh but youv'e got to think of your self a little!
2007-03-05 14:28:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋